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[damnednforsaken]

I can't help wondering if there's something wrong with me. I just feel so selfish and hopeless because every time I get involved with someone in the romantic sense... I start to freeze because the person I'm involved with invariably wants me to take care of them. I have no problem supporting someone I love and helping them out and stuff like that.

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[antesqueluz]

*hugs*

[bluechinalamp]

Alright, to answer your tag, no. There is NOTHING wrong with you feeling this way. It's perfectly normal to want a relationship where you're also taken care of. One sided relationships are not healthy most of the time and end up falling apart in the end. Not just in a love sense either.

Relationships require effort on BOTH ends. To me a healthy relationship consists of both sides working together through the good and bad. Not just when it's convenient for the other. Don't feel bad about yourself. So just let it out, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means you've been strong for too long.

(hugs)