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[dana_for_me]

 hmmm I'm kinda confused.  My friend Vinny told me he has a crush on me "again". I've known him since highschool and he's always been good to me. I don't know what to do about it because he's not a christian and I really would like to have  a relationship with someone who loves God.  I don't want some psycho Holy roller who is hyper judgemental

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[ex_crucioed]

This is just my opinion...

YOu could spend more time with him and see how you feel when getting to know him more. If you both like each other then it really shoudn't have to come between you as long as he doesn't try to turn you against your religion!

[dana_for_me]

well we have been talking since feb and we still have a very surface friendship. He's not an intellectual and i'm a rather deep person. we haven't gotten deep at all. even with simple things. He works and goes home and that's it. I want more. I don't really consider myself religious but spiritual. I have a relationship with God that is real, Im not religious in the sense that I just go to church or focusing on good works to get into heaven...sorry for preaching. I've been trying to get to know him but he's a surface guy and I think i need more and i need someone to definitely share my beliefs cuz it's important. I hope your not offended by the way I'm coming across right now. I haven't been feeling well, I'm anxious a lot and not getting enough sleep.

He's not really turning me from my beliefs but he has no beliefs and that can be a strong barrier between us.

Time will only tell but thank you for your thoughts :-)

[ex_crucioed]

I know what you mean. Of course you're not offending me in any way honey.

I consider myself spiritual too and prayer is somthing I do a lot and find it very theraputic.

You know best what you feel honey and you should go with what you feel is best *hugs*