feeling like crap..

[danceswithvodka]

Okay.. so i think i have the 'kissing disease.' Mono. It has not been confirmed, but i feel pretty crappy.. and i am sleeping WAY too much. I feel badly for Tom, who has it worse than i do. Course this means that he will be over it before i will- if i actually have it that is

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[eleika]

You're right. You should. They sound like horrible people, and sometimes we just outgrow our friends. Clearly they've got issues, and you're better off without them.

The fact is, you *don't* have to deal with their shit. Period. And that's that.

I'm sorry if I haven't been in touch too much lately, but I want you to know that I'm your friend, and anytime you want to hang out, just say the word.

Of course, right now ... hope you feel better. It sounds horrible for the both of you, and I can't even imagine what you're going through. :(

*nods*

[danceswithvodka]

yeah.. they are selfish and not "Melissa-worthy" friends anymore. I understand about being busy and sometimes just needing your own space.. i totally respect that.. i have needed some time to think lately..
as for my 'friends,' they have this obession with hanging out with each other ALL the time. Its actually quite frightening, but to each his own i guess.
And you are so right. i dont have to deal with it. and i wont..

Thank you for the post. Its nice to know i have great people in my corner.. I miss my man.. He's getting back to normal though.. getting better..
i still dont know if i have it though.. we shall see..

hope you are over the cold..

*big hugs*

[plutoshappygirl]

didn't u just give me advice on this matter!! :P well i wrote down all my friends, and am still trying to decide these two questions: What is a friendship to me? and What is a friend to me? Once I get those two down, and make my own specific definiton, I am going to break down my friends into different categories. maybe you should try this too, or just dump people u don't need in ur life. it's up to you. but don't let people hurt u, or be mean to u, because those people are not ur friends. i can tell u this much, those people who DESERVE ur time should get it, and those who don't shouldn't. just a few thoughts.

know that i love you sweetie, and that whatever decision u make i know will be the right one for you sweetie!!!!

lol

[danceswithvodka]

yes.. yes i did.. but i also said that it is one thing to give advice and another to take it.
I'm surprised at myself.. but u r right.. i will dump her ass.. Thank you..