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dancin_shoes3

Pondering....

Mar 21, 2007 21:27

have you ever felt that you were going in circles? or that you were missing out on life's simple pleasures? sometimes in life you do what you have to do, but sometimes what you have to do is take some time for yourself. when does it cross the line of being selfish and when does it cross the line from sanity to emotional and not knowing why? is what ( Read more... )

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pbbbt March 22 2007, 03:50:19 UTC

I know all about that "doing what you have to do" stuff. Fortunately, so far, I've managed to also keep time for myself... 'cause whats the point of doing what you gotta do if you don't enjoy the life you're making?

I love you. Hope to see you soon.

dancin_shoes3 March 26 2007, 18:21:52 UTC

thanks b! you're amazing! im really sorry i didn't make it to your party. suprise suprise i was working, lol. i hope to see you soon!

much love,
mo

sugarlessjazz March 23 2007, 14:23:23 UTC

similarly to what they said. No matter how hard you work becuase you have too, theres no point in working if in the end you can't enjoy your life.

Circles...How I've been there seaman_seesz March 24 2007, 10:59:40 UTC

Truthfully I don't think you can cross the line in being selfish when it comes to taking care of yourself. There is always comprimise that we all must come too. If you are never speaking up or doing what you want, than you are just appeasing others. Appeasing someone at the expense of yourself is never good.
Coming to a common ground with others is always good, (compromise) But doing it too a point were you start pulling hair out of your head is just crazy.
I've always thought that happiness is key. If you are not happy were you are at than what the hell is the point?
Love From The Navy Boy-Cory

Re: Circles...How I've been there dancin_shoes3 March 26 2007, 18:20:28 UTC

thanks cory, you make a great point. for me, it's just the boundary line of appeasing others or being selfish, ya know? it's hard for me to decide which is which. but thanks!

uwantmeuknowudo March 24 2007, 23:42:50 UTC

sometimes you just need to take it easy. Every now and then you have to make time for a "Marissa day"..everyone has to... it's not being selfish Mo, because you always give so much of yourself.

dancin_shoes3 March 26 2007, 18:21:05 UTC

thanks for listening to my rant, manda. things are looking on the up and up. God has been merciful. love ya!