On being visibly pregnant and invisibly queer

[dancingsinging]

I feel like I had really started to find a way to live with being queer while looking pretty much like a typical straight, suburban, stay-at-home mom. I found some ways of expressing the rest of me, made my peace with most people I met making erroneous assumptions about me, and did the work to really decide whether a monogamous relationship with my

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[vanmedi]

Oh baby....I love you. Just the way you are -in all of your different manifestations. I love the way you are. Your being. Your heart. The internal you that *cannot* even wear a sweater-set, and has no body to lose weight. I think this is a time in life where many of us, are searching deeper (than we've ever dared to look before) for who we really are, and who we want to be in the world. I have always loved you for your never ending *seeking spirit*. You are always developing and growing. And you are SO trustworthy. Those fleeting moments when you may doubt it, are just that...moments. Let them pass, and then get back to the business of being yourself