There is no harm having an exclusive monogamous relationship where you have your own life, your own interests and your own freedom to do what you will in life (so long as it is not at the detriment to another). Most guys would kill for a relationship like that! Pfft. Humans.
For sure, and frankly I prefer those relationships, but I can't seem to meet anyone interested in one, and I told myself j'd stay single for a year after the last breakup.
They're around! :) I am lucky enough to have found myself in such a relationship. I mean we are not completely separate, we still do a lot together and spend time with mutual friends and have some mutual interests, but half our lives are dedicated to ourselves and our own pursuits. I have talked to many men who complain about the same thing as you are, so I know there are plenty more around. I think you are just attracting the wrong men for some reason.
Awww kid, i know how you feel when you recognise that cycle of feelings again.
If it makes you feel any better - just remember human emotions are like a slow moving wave. There's the flat, then then the peak and crest, then the other side when we slowly come down. Its natural to feel - and bloody observant of yourself to notice that you're feeling what you're feeling and its come around again. Not many people are that self aware.
Where you living now these days? I been meaning to ask you about climbing etc. I have a new partner who's very keen and a wife/bestie who needs a little more prodding, but if there are 4 of us i can convince her.
Also how hard is it to learn to skate/roller blade? I've been meaning to learn for years....
if you need any help with anything, i'm sure you have my number? Or if you need to email it all out to me. i can be a sympathetic, but also enough removed impartial ear to help bek . jayne @ gmail.com
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GODDAMMIT I MISS YOU JANEYKINS.
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If it makes you feel any better - just remember human emotions are like a slow moving wave. There's the flat, then then the peak and crest, then the other side when we slowly come down. Its natural to feel - and bloody observant of yourself to notice that you're feeling what you're feeling and its come around again. Not many people are that self aware.
Where you living now these days? I been meaning to ask you about climbing etc. I have a new partner who's very keen and a wife/bestie who needs a little more prodding, but if there are 4 of us i can convince her.
Also how hard is it to learn to skate/roller blade? I've been meaning to learn for years....
if you need any help with anything, i'm sure you have my number? Or if you need to email it all out to me. i can be a sympathetic, but also enough removed impartial ear to help bek . jayne @ gmail.com
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