'Adam and Daniel are having sex in the hallway'

[danger03]

I wrestled Adam today. He shot me with his 2 dollar water gun in the neck--for no reason--in the hallway. Normally I wouldn't care, only today was not the day to be shooting anything at me, especially water. I responded with a 'fuck you' and he put his gun down, but then he fired on me again 5 minutes later. So I jumped him

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[jnmadrigal]

because that was the straightest thing I have ever done in my life

All you would have had to do is cop a feel, and it would have automatically become the LEAST straight thing you could do. ;-) And don't say that wrestling isn't homoerotic in the slightest.

[danger03]

Eh, I guess I'm just not as big a fan of pain as some people.

Wrasslin'

[runnerup]

vaguely arousing.

My roommate and I wrestled twice, I believe, because he was all macho, and I was angry. It was never like what you had; we basically said, "Hey, we're pissed. Wanna blow off some steam?" He was a wrestler in high school, and I was a cross-country runner, so he won. He was also a good 50 pounds heavier, but I did put up a good fight, through will.

The second time, he took his shirt off to wrestle, and that's when I wouldn't do it again -- I couldn't tip him off that time, but I wasn't going to chance it again the next.

If you want to wrestle, though, I'll show you some moves. And don't dis other stereotypical straight male things, such as beer drinking, football-watching, and girl spotting; they can be fully enjoyable for a gay male too.

As a sidenote, is Adam gay, or does he knw you are? And I bet you felt a whole lot better after taking off some of that edge by fighting with him, too, didn't you?

--Rob

Re: Wrasslin'

[forcemajeure]

Maybe it's just because I'm that gay, but there seems to be something missing from my experience base here. I've wrestled with friends before -- and, yes, I mean straight friends -- but it's always been a playful, roughhousing sort of thing, and not as part of addressing (or "addressing") some sort of actual conflict. I've wrestled, and I've had arguments with friends, but the two activities never fused into this anger-release-through-wrasslin' thing. To hear about it is rather like learning of some odd Dogon cleansing ritual about which I was previously unaware.

[forcemajeure]

Your shame only makes this more erotic.