how would you take this?

[darbyleemay]

Ok, I have to post this here since the person I'm referring to is on my myspace, and I don't want her to get offended (she's VERY easily offended).

My long-time friend, Mindy, wrote this blog, and I'm not sure how to take it. I will preface this with some background info:

A few weeks before New Years, she emailed me at work asking what we were doing

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[team_jessie]

Well, if she posted that, and didn't specifically lock you out of the thread, I'd say there's a good chance she wanted you to see it. For the record, my kindergartners do stuff like that (minus the typing and internet access, of course)

Is she PMSing by any chance? If it seems like it's really out of character, I say call her on it. MySpace tiffs are the worst. I think people try to get away with saying completely unacceptable crap over the internet, because they're safely behind the monitor.

[darbyleemay]

It's not that out of character for her; she's been slowly losing her mind over the past few years (ever since she had gastric bypass surgery). I totally agree though, people LOVE to hide behind the monitor and post nasty stuff on the internets...oh well. I figure if she doesn't respond to my comment to the blog within the next few days, I'm not going to bother with her anymore. it's not worth the stress and the headaches...

[sydneyjn415]

Being totally unaware of who she is, or what your friendship was/is like, if she's the kind of person who would be sweet to my face and talk about me behind my back, I don't know that she's the type of person I would put up with anything for...

(Happy New Year, btw!!)

[darbyleemay]

Howdy stranger!

my lil' pic here is about my reaction when she speaks; honestly, we haven't been nearly as close as we used to back in the day, but i still care about her well-being. I've decided, since she has yet to reply to my comment on her blog, that I'm just going to leave the ball in her court. If she wants to get together anytime, she has to make that move. I'm done trying to be the one to make plans and see her & her husband. Fuck it. :P

Happy New Year to you too, Syd!