Holy shit...I used to feel that way about strip clubs until I realized that men are pigs, and they're going to look, whether its right in front of you or behind your back, they're going to look. Do I get pissed when Alan points out the 394873985739847 girls that look better than me? Yes. But I've given up on bitching at him about it.
Good luck, and talk it over with him before it eats away at you (more than it already has).
Well no, see I have given up on bitching about every friggin girl with big boobies and blonde hair that walks by, if I had kept it up I'd be more drained about shit than I am right now. And to be honest, I don't mind he's going to a strip club, if he wants to go he can go, but I don't want to hear about it (which me and him have already discussed). This whole entry, was my vent because I didn't want to scream and yell at him, ya know? I just don't see the point is all. Why he can't have fun getting drunk with his friends without a shitload of naked girls running around. Let alone why he's gonna go waste his damn money on it when right now, he doesn't exactly have it to spend. Thanks though Faye, I was hoping I wasn't alone in the feeling.
Men are visual creatures, it's biological, evolutionary, whatever you wanna call it. They can't help it. As much as we crave a mental connection with people, they love to LOOK at things. It has noting to do with their love for us or anything like that. They jsut like n00dz. And as Ron White would say "if you see one girl naked...you wanna see the rest of them." As long as he comes home to you. Hell, the way I see it, if he ends up loving it that much, where he'd become one of those guys that go every night and spend their paycheck on their 'favorite' stripper, then that's just sad, and who would want a guy like that, anyway? I doubt thatd be the case anyway. It's not like he's going to a party at a house where the strippers will do anything for extra money, at most clubs, they can't touch. Im sure with the drinking and the socializing with his friends, theyll only be half paying attention to the girls. PLus, once they realize how freaking expensive and boring it gets, they'll change their minds real quick about going all the time,
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Thanks Lori..the thing is, I do enough shit for him to earn cool girlfriend points I can stand to lose a few for having beef with him going to a strip club. But suffice to say, he's going, and I'mma go out with my friends and oogle at all the hot guys I want cuz its a two way street. <3
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Good luck, and talk it over with him before it eats away at you (more than it already has).
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Thanks though Faye, I was hoping I wasn't alone in the feeling.
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