im feeling pretty low today. i dont know what it is... maybe im coming to the realization that i have been leading on a really nice guy and thats a pretty shitty thing to do
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i have been thinking a lot about this situation since we talked and i think you need to just talk to him. tell him everything. and get it over with.
no 'it's not you, it's me' or anything like that. just be honest with him about how you feel so he doesn't have to go through the next couple of months beating himself up trying to figure out what happened between the two of you, or where he went wrong... because he'll already know.
i know when we talked about it yesterday i was on the fence, but i know i would want to be told the truth if i were him. and you will feel a million times better, too. i have been the one cheated on and i have been the cheater (i know the exact terms might not fit your situation, but it still applies) and neither of them are anything close to a good place to be.
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no 'it's not you, it's me' or anything like that. just be honest with him about how you feel so he doesn't have to go through the next couple of months beating himself up trying to figure out what happened between the two of you, or where he went wrong... because he'll already know.
i know when we talked about it yesterday i was on the fence, but i know i would want to be told the truth if i were him. and you will feel a million times better, too. i have been the one cheated on and i have been the cheater (i know the exact terms might not fit your situation, but it still applies) and neither of them are anything close to a good place to be.
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