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[dark_sunshine]

so here's the skinny: i want to tell rob that i love him. lately, i feel like i have word vomit. there are times when we are talking, and all of a sudden there will be this opportunity to tell him, and then-poof. there it goes

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[famouswithoutme]

you can't say that you don't really care if he says it back. of course you care. how could you not?

if i were you i wouldn't say it first. but, maybe that's just me. doing that would have me always wondering, in the back of my mind, if he just said it back because i said it first, or if he truly meant it. we can talk about this in person, though, if you'd like.

[illuminatedwax]

you sound like me in high school. just do it. i've learned that you can avoid a lot of heartache by getting over your fears and being fucking honest. put aside your pretenses of "not wanting to ruin it" or "i want it to be perfect" and just be honest.

if it's going to ruin the relationship, is this a relationship you want? whats going to change in the future thats going to magically open up the avenue you want to purse? nothing.

[famouswithoutme]

i definitely agree with the sentiment that you don't want to be in a relationship that being honest about how you feel is going to ruin, that's just silly.