I've never understood that behavior. Saying "no" or "my life is too chaotic right now to make plans" is a reasonable way to act. Jerking somebody around is just unconscionable. I had somebody doing that to me a couple of years ago. I finally got to the point where I suggested that she call me an hour before she wanted to get together, and if I was free I'd join her, but that I wasn't going to plan around her any more.
Then again, if I were nameless I'd probably be so bitter that I would be a jerk too.
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Then again, if I were nameless I'd probably be so bitter that I would be a jerk too.
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