Facade

[dasbobert]

I just cant seem to win. No matter what I do, how hard I try I just seem to end up hurt or sad. I dont know I just cant seem to find happiness. Since Sarah ive really felt as though any girl I meet ill just end up screwing up, including the ones I know now. I havent felt like Bob in a long time

Comments

[theravenman]

First thing to realize is that familiarity often breeds contempt, but if you give the person space, they will usually realize that the closeness they had is worth more than the contempt they grew to feel. Not always, but usually. Learn from every experience and regret none, no matter how it turns out. Really, we can only do what we feel is right at the time we do it, or not. Either way, it should be a learning experience and not something to hate yourself over

[dasbobert]

I appreciate your concern and words. I just dont feel the same anymore. I burned the bridge with Sarah, theres no going back. I dont know man. Remember when my biggest problem was if Id reach Jessica Colins locker in time for a hello?

[theravenman]

Haha those were the days. But as for now, you shouldn't worry about going back, but learn from it and look at going forward. Maybe she'll come back into your life one day, and maybe not. But you'll never know if you keep looking back and never go forward. You're a badass guy, and if she doesn't come back, it is her loss, and someday another girl will fill that void for you. It's just a matter of patience and learning from mistakes. It's the hardest lesson I've ever learned, and I'm a quick learner. Haha. Good luck man.

[mikedawiz]

Great words Raven. I totally agree. Like both of you i too feel the lonliness all the time. Bob you know this. But Raven is right. We can't dwell on the pain and let it control our lives. I understand what happened between you and sarah was a very special thing, especially since it was your first time(the first time), but you can't let your feelings cloud your judgement. Now i cant preach to you due to the fact that i am still a virgin and have not been in the same situation, and i have a feeling that if i was in the same situation, i may be feeling the same way you did and still do. But like Raven said

[thepyrowitch]

Bob! You know I would never not love you! *hugs* You're way to awesome for me to forget. ^^

[deathina]

bob you aren't making me unhappy, it's me that must make myself happy you aren't doing anything wrong.

sorry to hear

[kungluu]

i read the comments n i have to agreed to your friend raven i said early let go of the past put it behind u shouldnt worry bout this incident i know it is hard but train yourself n let go of it n losses will not harm u im here for u man like i said u family i know how it feel to be lonely man shit i dont want it either thats y i try to hang out as much as i can to let go of such negative emotions if u need to talk let me know if not then im understand