Roommate Woes

May 02, 2015 11:42

I suppose I should preface this with 'I've never really had a roommate.' When I first moved out eight years ago, I briefly had one who I found through the newspaper, but she and I didn't talk at all and she moved out after a semester at the University. Two years ago I let a boyfriend move in, but it didn't last more than a couple of months. This ( Read more... )

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katzendame May 6 2015, 19:06:31 UTC

Well, he was unemployed when you allowed him to move in, so you really can't expect that to change. You were okay with it then, bills are being paid... I guess find other ways to get alone time... Maybe a lock on your door and ask him to respect your door being closed as a sign that you're not available.

His parenting skills don't sound top notch, but he's not abusing the kid. Stay out of it unless it's effecting you specifically, like the forced babysitting.

There other issues i think either need to just be discussed as roommates or you need to keep your mouth shut and swiftly make other living arrangements happen. I had to do the latter with my last roommate who was my bff of over a decade. I wasnt willing to rock the friendship boat by blowing up at him, so once our lease was up, i said sayoara.

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