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[nobodiesprfct]

Hello! I'm new here. 22/f...just have a question for now..

Where is the best place to meet potential s/o's? And is it better for a girl to be more assertive or more passive in the guy's opinion?

Comments

[eugenekudelka]

depends on the person or what the situation entails. I say be assertive, all you have to loose is your pride, but once you're over that then it's ok. If you're hitting on someone and it goes bad, just somehow turn it into a a compliment. After you say,...I really like you I would love to go on a date sometime then they say no,...you could say something like,...that's fine, if you ever change your mind... so on and so forth.

hey hey

[aatila]

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i started it and would like people that
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to visit my community or journal
feel free to
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their is a form you fill in with questions
about your date
It really intertaining...
ciao aatila

[da_spida]

I don't understand what your asking?

[shahidsch]

Just be yourself, if being assertive is natural to you, then that's the best thing to do, since moving forward its going to come out anyway. So be cool, no worries, no tensions, just be the way you are. This might have disappointments, but you sure will hit the jackpot!

[bombastinator]

If you're assertive you will increase the number of guys you talk to, and find some of the more passive guys, who tend to be more loyal and are generally easier to live with. On the down side you're also going to run the risk of finding guys who aren't interested in a relationship and may merely string you along to get laid.

If you're passive, only the assertive guys will approach you (which may be a really good thing, depending on your taste) and you may have less choice as to who you get to pick from.