Somebody Help Me, I Died Last Night

Aug 17, 2005 13:34

isn't it amazing how much a few words can change things? it's too bad you're good at talking. no one has ever made me feel worse than you did last night. and it doesn't matter how i try to defend myself because you always find a way to back me into a corner like a bully in an elementary school. you make me feel helpless, horrible, and depressed ( Read more... )

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artmonkey83 August 17 2005, 14:05:19 UTC
you can't remember the last time we had fun? i beg to differ. we have fun all the time, or at least i think we do. and i'm not going to say anymore about it i'm done. you continue to do what makes you happy... if it doesn't make me happy i guess i'll just have to live with it right? no. you can't expect me to do that, just like i can't expect you to keep taking the "shit" i'm giving you about this stuff. i really hope things work out, but its not up to me. i can't do anything about it, so i quit trying right now.

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The crowed is silent but they all know the pain darkromantic131 August 17 2005, 14:34:52 UTC
I dont know exactly what is going on and I cant pretend to know how you feel but I know what its like to feel like the girl is telling you that you arent good enough and your job is the most important thing... Trust me... Ive been there... Ive had more jobs in the last 3 years than most people do their entire life... Ive had a girl tell me that I need to grow up and be more mature and hold a job... But the thing is, I feel just like you... Im not going to do something Im not enjoying... I know its work and its not suppose to be fun but noone is going to do a job that they dont like or work in a place that they hate, regardless of the pay or responsibilities... It seems a lot like every girl wants the same thing... Security... It makes guys feel like a bank statement or a financial aid plan... When do relationships become about money and not about just enjoying life together... It seems like they always cross that boarder when we arent paying attention... And when you need the most support it always feels like they are giving you the ( ... )

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artmonkey83 August 17 2005, 18:24:29 UTC
well, when it effects me, i think i have a right to voice my opinion. when things that need to be paid for aren't being paid for and i'm working me butt off doing things at my job i don't enjoy doing to help him out then i don't feel it is very fair to me. i feel like i'm giving more, which isn't what a relationship is about, or at least shouldn't be when both sides are capable of working anywhere... even if its just so that we can get by for a while, if he feels the relationship is worth it he would find a job and work somewhere he hated... if he had to... and if not, then he's not ready for a relationship with me. because i would do that for him!

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.... darkromantic131 August 18 2005, 14:27:19 UTC
Im not saying that both sides shouldnt contribute... Im just saying that you should understand that hes not meaning to make you feel like you are doing all the work its just hes not happy with the job he had... Relationships arent about who is giving more and whos paying the bills... Its about supporting each other when they need it and understanding... Hes not asking you to raise him... Hes just asking you to please understand that he needs to find a job he likes doing... In a relationship both people should be willing to go the extra mile if needed and sure its going to suck doing so but Im sure david would bust his ass if the situation were reversed... Just because he doesnt like his job doesnt mean hes not ready for a relationship but if a guy (or girl) is unhappy with their job or career they arent going to be happy socially and in a relationship and that really wouldnt be fair because it would cause a lot more static in the relationship.... Then it goes from "your lazy and dont want to work" to "you need to quit complaining so ( ... )

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