Comments | dawlhaus: I don't know what to do....

dawlhaus

I don't know what to do....

Dec 27, 2005 20:47

Ok so I thought things were going great but I don't think so. I mean I'm settling. I should never settle right. I know I shouldn't be writing this on here I should actually be talking to someone about it but really I don't know what to do. I jumped head first into a lake of freezing water and now I'm drowing from being frost bitten and I fear ( Read more... )

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neonsunflower December 28 2005, 02:36:20 UTC

I hope everything works out for the best. even if you don't break up with him, you really do need to just sit down and have a good talk about things. xo

dawlhaus December 28 2005, 03:33:33 UTC

I know I do Dani....its just working up to that

neonsunflower December 28 2005, 03:37:11 UTC

yeah, it's just good to get some insight first. good luck =)

This is a shocker! c_money December 28 2005, 03:03:24 UTC

No, you should never settle. Especially now that your life is going so well ( ... )

Re: This is a shocker! dawlhaus December 28 2005, 03:31:48 UTC

Thanks courtney I needed that. I actually called haley cuz I needed to hear her. I think a lot of this also stems from not being able to talk to her as much lately with what i've been feeling. I know I should talk to Liam first but its just alot easier to rehearse with your gals ya know. And yes I know its a shocker but there are some things I didn't want to put in here we'll chat perhaps at motown tmw night???

reiayanami December 28 2005, 07:40:47 UTC

Sometimes when things get seriously very quickly the fire burns out just as fast as whatever ignited it. I agree with Courtney that you might want to think about it. Everyone gets bored from time to time in a relationship, especially when things are really good. Somes a bit of time and distance makes you realize how much you actually feel for the person. If you don't feel like this would change things though, its better to just get it over with. The longer you wait, the more he'll think things are fine. Don't drag it out. Be honest and hopefully he can appreciate that. If he can't, that isn't your fault either, and he will get over it. Do what is right for you. As for the other guy, don't let him be your only reason. You may think that is what you want, but things can always change.