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daywahyn

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Aug 03, 2005 15:15

I shall try to keep this rant to a minimum. Sort of. I would also like to preface this by saying that the catalyst for my tantrum is so mundane it's almost embarassing.
I AM SO FARKIN' SICK OF NOT HAVING MY SHIT! I WANT MY STUFF. I WANT SOME SPACE. I WANT TO LIVE IN MY GODDAMNED HOUSE WITH MY GODDAMNED STUFF! ( Read more... )

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deviantauthor August 3 2005, 17:26:02 UTC

Rant away!

Go you on the breastfeeding! *g* I breastfed all three of the orclings for at least a year.

daywahyn August 3 2005, 18:51:55 UTC

Thanks so much for permission, lol.

Monster weaned when I got preggers with the Monstress. He was two and change. I really think it's so important to their physical and emotional development. I can go for hours on lactivist rants. But I won't. Not today anyway.

deviantauthor August 3 2005, 19:14:24 UTC

Oh dear. I sounded bad. I meant rant away, as in supportive context, not permission. *g*

Go you on breastfeeding! It was a great experience and I'm so glad I got to do it and it was actually something I was able to do well.

daywahyn August 4 2005, 04:44:46 UTC

I was kidding about the permission comment. I knew what you meant but I must be obnoxious now and then just to prove I can.

Rock on back at you for breastfeeding! It's nice to meet others who find it important and are willing to suffer the "You're STILL feeding him/her like THAT??!?" comments for as long as they feel is necessary for their family and not the general public's comfort zone. My Stepmom was the worst about that. She'd wrinkle her little piggy nose and simper in this oversupportive enthusiastic voice about what a "wonderful job" I was doing but she just couldn't IMAGINE being tied down like that. She nursed her young'uns for a MAX of the recommended six weeks after birth and thought she deserved a medal for it. GRR.
I can relate to the "something I was able to do well" idea, too. I feel like I fail in lots of aspects of my parenting (i.e. my son's birth, temper control, feeding them correctly) so much of the time I'm happy to be able to smile and nod serenely about the nursing.
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yazethet August 4 2005, 00:07:37 UTC

Oy... can totally sympathize with wanting your stuff back and will be respective of your need to rant about the current suckage of life without hearing about the silver lining around the dark cloud because #1. I know I'm guilty of saying that all the time and #2. I don't fancy getting bitten yipe!

daywahyn August 4 2005, 04:53:52 UTC

Danke for de sympathy. It is quite appreciated. I am mostly over my tantrum. JP brought me a few more roses so they don't look completly stupid in the big vase. And I have flowers. It does mean that the $3 no big deal turned into a $6 bit bigger deal but we'll skip a "I'm too tired to cook, let's go to BK" and that should help curb the issue.

When I called JP at work to ask him to stop and grab a few more flowers he initially told me no. He had help coming to assist him on the house and he didn't have time to stop. His help was Jennifer...the sleeping with a married guy chick. Just made me hate her even more, lol. I don't hate her! At least I'm trying not to. And he did bring me the flowers. I made the comment that the girls at work told him he better do it, huh? and he got this deer-in-the-headlights look and then vehemently denied it. HAHAAAHAHAHA. Yeah, right. As for Jennifer, I just make sure I'm there while she is. Not a biggie...had planned to work there anyway. So bleh *pulls tongue back in before it gets ( ... )

yazethet August 4 2005, 14:38:41 UTC

LOL At least he did end up bringing the flowers even if there was outside influence - awww how sweet! Heh. And...um...try not to chew your lip off while trying NOT to hate the homewrecker JP's friend who is a girl who sleeps with married guys. Gah! I can't help myself. I totally understand the need to be wary even when trusting hubby implicitly.

daywahyn August 4 2005, 05:01:06 UTC

And it isn't just you that says the whole "it'll be so great when you live there" speech. It's every body!!! And more specifically my one friend who is know for spouting platitudes anyway gave me this big long speech yesterday about how wonderful it will be and how we'll look back on this time and laugh when we're old and everything is beautiful and and and. I think her sleep medication may have been kicking in but damn. She was a fountain of platitudes, a geyser of cliche', a, a...um. Yeah. Well. I need some coffee.

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deviantauthor August 4 2005, 05:17:23 UTC

Okay, it's not outta the realm of mental comfort/amusement for you to hope said friend gets to live with such arrangements for a while in her life. If there's anything I can't stand, it's bullshite people try to spout off with when they haven't been there and done that ( ... )

daywahyn August 4 2005, 05:59:48 UTC

The sucky part about wishing ill on said friend is that she deals with more crap on a day to day basis than most. She's one of those people that I love to just HATE! Here's an abbreviated list of schtuff A. does: She's involved with local theatre, homeschools her 4 kids (2 of whom are adopted out of the system,) she's a CASA representative, she's our local API co-leader and she's a very sweet, outgoing individual ( ... )

deviantauthor August 4 2005, 06:22:48 UTC

Oh--she's one of Those. *shudders ( ... )

yazethet August 4 2005, 14:59:08 UTC

Well... maybe she's a real life Mary Sue! *cough*