Worst Night of My Life

[dd_dean]

I just had the worst night of my entire life. I don't think anyone can top this, but I'm sure some will try. Let's start things off on a lighter note. Yesterday was decent. Before the Michael Moore show, I helped make T-shirts with my friend Sam and Seth. It was fun, and I think Seth might still like me. I hope so at least...but anyway, when we

Comments

[atira]

I'm so sorry, Jenifer. You in no way deserve the abuse that you have gotten from ryan. you definitely did the right thing by calling the police and filing the restraining order against him. if i were you i would cut off all contact with him permanently. he is obviously extremely imbalanced and needs help, and it's not your job to give it to him. you have so much going on right now, and so much going for you, don't compromise that for him. say no to psycho ex-boyfriends! i hope you feel better, and know that you can always call me or sarah if you need anything. xoxo.

[spawnsofsatan]

aww my little dd dean, i love you!!! sorry i snapped at you when you called last night. haha. i wish i could go to gainesville and be with you right now! :( feel better! (WOW. i really give the lamest advice. sorry!)

[__elana]

JENIFER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
ryan has gone over the top. i don't know what happened to him but you don't deserve that. i love you so much and you deserve someone amazing that treats you INCREDIBLY not a guy that's going to beat you and give you shit about having your own life. i wish i could come to gville with len and deniz too! i miss you so much and i hope to see you soon-i hope you feel better i love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
have fun at dave matthews and i will talk to you soon---and steer clear of the water buffalo. amanda is here and sends her love. xoxoxoxoxo

[muffled_shrieks]

aw nifer im so sorry that had to happen to you. what a piece of shit. seriously. i dont know, he obviously has serious mental issues but you do not in any way deserve to be treated like that. we both know how ive never liked him anyway. but i know how the whole in love with the mentally unstable kid thing goes. so i understand, but im glad that its finally over for you guys and the restraining order should finalize that. <3 call me sometime if you want 850-853-2425. <333

Re: Fuck you.

[muffled_shrieks]

I don't believe anything bad about Jenifer. I can't think of a single negative thing that I think about her. You, on the other hand, are a terrible person. I haven't talked to you for years, and people do change since highschool,you know. So you really don't have anything to go by on how I am, however, I can go by what Jenifer says about you, but more so by your actions towards her, and I am absolutely sick by what you did to her.

This is all I have to say to you.

[regimeoftruth]

Why don't you go by what she writes in her live journal when she's upset rather than what she says in person later on? Then you'll be sure to get her totally objective opinion on the whole thing, and be totally justified in feeling sick about what you know to be the absolute truth of what happened. Anyway, Jenifer and I are going to talk a bit less for a while (yes we are still talking, and she seems to enjoy doing so, so I don't think she thinks that I am this abuser), so that everything can calm down a bit and maybe we can start over. I would like to set something straight though: I had decided that maybe you were alright years ago the last time I saw you, since you hadn't fucked Jen over in a while... But am I really supposed to be all nice to you when the first thing that you say about me after hearing the only information you've probably heard about me in years is that I am a piece of shit and that I have serious mental issues? No. I don't like you because from the little bit of information that I've got about you at this point,

I can't believe you would exagerrate like that!

[anonymous]

Thanks a whole shitload for defaming my good name so that your night seems more dramatic. I really appreciate it. Now if we ever do get back together (which I should remind you that you said we might someday when we had breakfast together the next morning) all of your friends are going to hate me. I suggest you set them straight about it.
Still yours,
Ryan

Re: I can't believe you would exagerrate like that!

[__elana]

i see you deleted the comment you directed toward me, but i'll respond nonetheless. you said something like, "do you really think i would beat jen + do you really think the fight was about friends?"
i don't know what to think but i don't see why jen would lie. you know i don't hate you, i've always thought you were awesome + i always thought that you and jen would be together forever. if jen wants to get back together with you, i would have no problem with that and i would happily hang out with you guys like old times, but i don't know why she would if what she's saying is accurate. i trust and love jen and i'm trusting the fact that she's speaking the truth. if you really did that to her, i hope you really apologized and then some. i couldn't ever imagine you doing something so awful! hopefully, things have changed or you were really drunk or something and i can only pray something like that won't happen again to jen.
-elana

Umm...

[regimeoftruth]

I don't know what happened to my comment... it disappeared, but I swear I didn't delete it. Very weird. Anyway, I was drunk, but I still feel that Jen exaggerated because she was upset, and the result was that I looked like a huge wife beating redneck asshole. If Jen agrees then I'm sure she'll clear it up... For all I know, she already has. I've apologized profusely for breaking her vacuum, and she has said that probably the only way for me to earn forgiveness is to lay low and have a break for a while, so that's what I'm going to do. However, Jen has a lot of friends who I like (I can only think of one of her friends that I don't like), and of all of those friends, you're probably the only one I really consider to be my friend too, and not just a warm aquaintance. I don't see you often for obvious reasons, so I have to defend myself here, since I really don't want you to think bad of me if I don't deserve it.

Re: Umm...

[__elana]

i appreciate that a lot. i consider you a friend, too and i want everything to be okay with you guys. is this a new lj? if so,add me!
-elana