The Love Discussion...
Before you read this long ass conversation... What I wish you to reflect on is the understanding of love and what it means to you. Is there a good and bad side to love? Honestly, how do you feel about it?
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SoCalFriend: Hi
SoCalFriend: Don't ya wanna dance with me baby?
syntax 82: huh?
SoCalFriend: whitney houston girl
SoCalFriend: recognize
SoCalFriend: say ya wanna dance, know ya wanna dnace bay-beh!
syntax 82: i wasn't ever really into her
SoCalFriend: Whitney Houston was the ultimate woman, before bobby ruined her
SoCalFriend: I put her up with aretha franklin as just a classy diva
syntax 82: uhm.. i never thought so...
syntax 82: no way... she doesn't hold a match to aretha
SoCalFriend: I dug her
SoCalFriend: I do, she could of done so much more if she never got fucked up by bobby brown
SoCalFriend: sigh, perfect example how love can hurt
syntax 82: nah man, her career was over by the time she got with bobby
SoCalFriend: not even close
syntax 82: and she was on drugs before bobby
SoCalFriend: she was blowing up while she was with bobby
syntax 82: i can't believe you didn't know that
syntax 82: no...
SoCalFriend: no she went the coke,crack route through bobby
syntax 82: just like her aunt...
SoCalFriend: bobby put her over the edge
syntax 82: just like most stars in those days
syntax 82: even marvin gaye
syntax 82: baby recognize what happens to these people
syntax 82: it's part of the culture
syntax 82: witney had drug abusers around her all the time and she was one
SoCalFriend: its the darkside of making it in the industry
syntax 82: she was doing lines way back when
syntax 82: and witney said she never did crack
SoCalFriend: still, i believe her downfall was due to the whole bobby brown scene
syntax 82: you just hating on the black man
SoCalFriend: fool beat her and just made her fall deeper in the depression of drugs
SoCalFriend: no
syntax 82: no that's bullshit
SoCalFriend: the facts are there
syntax 82: there are no facts
SoCalFriend: of him beating her ass?
syntax 82: witney was her own downfall
syntax 82: people don't want to take responsibility for their own actions
SoCalFriend: people can be blinded by others
syntax 82: factt is... witney married bobby cause no one else in hollywood would put a ring on her
SoCalFriend: and fail because of the fact
syntax 82: people blind themselves
syntax 82: no one blinds you
syntax 82: you wanna use ddrugs you use em
syntax 82: people don't make you use drugs
syntax 82: it's a choice
syntax 82: she's a grown ass woman
SoCalFriend: people dont blind themselvs, thats where your non-limmerent logic falters
SoCalFriend: love blinds my dear
syntax 82: and she wasn't all that of a singer in the first place
syntax 82: love is pure
syntax 82: not blinding
SoCalFriend: love is a thin line
syntax 82: cleansing
SoCalFriend: no you are wrong there
syntax 82: there is a thin line between love and hate
SoCalFriend: love have many different phases
syntax 82: love is huge
SoCalFriend: not all of them are good
syntax 82: love is bigger than hate
syntax 82: no
SoCalFriend: there is a bad side, thats why the say goes
SoCalFriend: 'thin line between love and hate
syntax 82: there is no impure love, people think they are in love when they arn't sometimes
SoCalFriend: so how can love be bigger then hate,
syntax 82: because love is the only thing that can overcome hate
SoCalFriend: thats an opinion coming from someone looking on the outside
syntax 82: just like your outside opinion huh?
syntax 82: woo hoo
SoCalFriend: who are u to say they arent in love and lost? Love is an intensely powerful emotion
syntax 82: you can't hurt someone because you love them
SoCalFriend: because u are stating claim and putting your foot down on it, where as i am not
syntax 82: you hurt someone because you don't love them enough to control yourself
syntax 82: because you don't love yourself enough to control yourself
syntax 82: that is what self destruction is
SoCalFriend: *claps*
SoCalFriend: yeah good example of self destruction
SoCalFriend: however there are other sides to the angle
syntax 82: i disagree
SoCalFriend: you are right, but so am i, love goes both ways
SoCalFriend: bad and good
syntax 82: no i don't believe that
syntax 82: there is no bad love
SoCalFriend: and people can be helplessly in love with someone be down but not be self destructive
SoCalFriend: there is bad love
syntax 82: i don't believe in helplessly in love
SoCalFriend: See what you dont realize is that people cant control who they fall in love with
SoCalFriend: of course you dont, its not logical
syntax 82: there is helplessly illogical. helplessly dillusional...
SoCalFriend: so you will probably never be romanced or have that 'love at first sight' expierence
SoCalFriend: cause u think to far into things, u are like a computer when it comes to love
syntax 82: cause i don't eat bullshit with chopsticks?
SoCalFriend: if it doesnt calculate properly then its all bad
syntax 82: lol
SoCalFriend: what bullshit?
syntax 82: no, love is not like a computer
SoCalFriend: no your logic on the idea is
syntax 82: it is unpredictable but you don't kill yourself because of love
syntax 82: you kill yourself because of dillusion
syntax 82: i don't believe love causes pain... people cause pain
syntax 82: people cause themselves pain when they obcess over people
SoCalFriend: love is an emotion from people
SoCalFriend: who can they not go hand in hand Ayori
syntax 82: love is an emotion... if you let your emotions control you then your life has no control
SoCalFriend: love is not some weak emotion, its strong and it can cause you to do anything
SoCalFriend: ok, so you stand by the statement, and at the same time you say you cant control who you fall in love with, which means there are actions u cant control
SoCalFriend: ????
SoCalFriend: ok.....
syntax 82: you can't cotrol who you fall in love with, but you can control yourself and you have to take personal responsibility for your actions and you cannot blame it on your emotions which are not an entity.
syntax 82: falling in love is not an action
SoCalFriend: I think wha it is, is that you yourself have no faith in the average male being able to control his emotions
SoCalFriend: what our whole conversation?
syntax 82: no this has nothing to do with the average of any gender
syntax 82: it has to do with destructive people taking responsibility for their actions
syntax 82: Witney Houston fucked up her life...
syntax 82: Bobby fucked up his life
syntax 82: you can't blame bobby on witney and witney on bobby
syntax 82: you can't black crack addict on crack dealer or crack dealer on crack addict
syntax 82: but you can blame the government for letting the coke in.
SoCalFriend: blame
syntax 82: HAHAHA
SoCalFriend: letting crack into cali
SoCalFriend: true true , on that part at least
SoCalFriend: you also forget about the millions of evil people out there in the world that completely take advantage of those limmerent people who are helplessly in love
SoCalFriend: its like a weakness, cause u arent going to do anything to harm the person u are in love with, but they can REALLY hurt and use you
syntax 82: obviously that limerent person needs a reality check
syntax 82: remember dillusional?
SoCalFriend: dude, its not about being dillusiona
SoCalFriend: more like manipulation by the other person
syntax 82: how can you love AND stay with someone who will harm you?
syntax 82: classic victims complex
syntax 82: you want to be a victim, you want to be beat and abused...
SoCalFriend: because maybe that person knows how to rub u just the right way to get what they want out of u,
syntax 82: for whatever reason YOU are allowing it
SoCalFriend: its not always violence
SoCalFriend: most of the time its mental when its a girl thats in love with a guy and the guy is just stringing her along
syntax 82: well you let yourself be used... you have to learn to protect yourself
SoCalFriend: yeah well most people arent as strong as you ayori
SoCalFriend: and as much as it is a good thing to learn the hard way on your own, most people really arent that strong
SoCalFriend: when it comes to being in love
syntax 82: well regardless... i don't think Witney is one of those
SoCalFriend: I still say she would of strived a lot better without dealing with bobby
SoCalFriend: you dont decide to get off drugs then go become roomates with the dealer
syntax 82: then your ass need to find a new roomate
SoCalFriend: DUH! =P which circles back to me saying she would of done a lot better drop kickin bobby
syntax 82: and i think Witney has a strung out personality
syntax 82: and people know for a fact she used drugs before bobby
SoCalFriend: well, with all those drugs , yeah u are bound to end up being strung out
syntax 82: you are fotgetting she is a hell of a lot older than bobby
SoCalFriend: yeah i know
SoCalFriend: she was so beautiful for her age as well....damn drugs
syntax 82: no... i didn't ever find her attractive and her hair was ugly
SoCalFriend: omg
syntax 82: she was also too skinny and always batttling anorexia
SoCalFriend: please, in that womans prime, she was amazingly beautiful
syntax 82: did you know that?
SoCalFriend: she had class and carried herself very well
syntax 82: it was her influence who had Brandy being anorexic
syntax 82: Witney had no prime.. she only had anorexia and hair.
SoCalFriend: lol
SoCalFriend: I dont care about her anorexia, im talking about just her facial features alone