what the hell is ur problem!?!?!? Im Saying its general, in my last comment i said it wasnt directed at her! She doesnt need it to be explained to her, im sure she can figure it out Its more directed at people like you than at Kari I think Karis awesome and shes good to talk to, but i dont think u know what the heck ur talking about! I dont have any problem with Kari, she seems completely awesome and i think jon found sum1 incredibly nice But i cant figure out how this has anything to do with you U say that u care, well than listen and take notice... Get your nose out from where i doesnt belong and stop telling my who i am, i dont know who the heck i am.... but i can tell you for a fact i dont want to be the person u keep telling me i am
first- everyone stop attacking dave. look to see who is really jumping to conclusions.
second- suzi you have no grounds to say something like that to dave and you know it.
erika- talk to your boyfriend
in general- dave has tried so hard to make himself a better person. he is not the same any more. accept it. and as he said, if he doesn't even know himself, how could you? i am tired of people still saying the same things about him. its different now. why don't you see it? I have actually spent the time to try to get to know this new person. why don't you, instead of whining about the same old things. if you dont want to deal with it then shut your mouth, because im sick of it.
ok a few generally specific statements: kari, i love you. dave, whoa calm man. suzzi, said what? two sentences...wayy too much tension. suzzi, not the best way of putting things. erika, you're puerto rican. smiley, good words, good words.
Willful Rebel: argh, i love how jon jumps in to the comments and has no background info...he's so noble wanderingwitch13: hahaha wanderingwitch13: that kid is amazing
jon, this has been goin on for the past month and im done... and im not the only one thats noticed it... for sum reason, Suzi thinks i hate ur gf and she needs to realize she doesnt know what i think becuz she doesnt take the time to ask my opinion
Okay. All I said was, "Dave, don't make assumptions." I never once tried to tell him who he was. What I meant by that was that he doesn't know that people don't take the time to try and figure him out. Maybe they do, and maybe he doesn't see it.
I also never said that I think he hates Kari. He made an assumption that I thought that. Wonder why I said, "Dave, don't make assumptions?" That's one reason. He also assumes that I don't care about him which is NOT true. Personally, I've been having a rough time lately and showing Dave that I care isn't really my top thought right now, sorry.
Now is my turn to apologize, because I assumed that Kari thought Dave didn't like her, which apparently he does. From conversation with Kari and stuff, I got the impression that she thought that Dave had an issue with her. I don't know what Kari thinks, I suppose, and I'm sorry for making that assumption.
Dave, I understand why you think that I don't care. But once, when I came to you wanting to help you out, you told me that if
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i didnt make assumptions about Karis feelings at all I didnt make assumptions of you thinking i hate Kari Sum1 else was the one that told me that u thought i hated Kari So, ur making the assumption...that im assuming i dont have any problem about u not caring, ur the one that brought that into it i really dont care if u care about me, i cant stand u always puting me down i've been trying to stay serious for the past week or two, and eventually i make a totally dumb-ass statement and u tell me to shut up and tell me to stop being so stupid I'll say what ever the fuck i want, u cant change that, im a fucking air head and enjoying myself and by putin me down ur unconsiously trying to change that. and you always think im mad at you, im just telling you how u come off to me and others.... and honestly, i'd rather u not know me... Because then u couldnt pass judgement
"i've been trying to stay serious for the past week or two, and eventually i make a totally dumb-ass statement and u tell me to shut up and tell me to stop being so stupid"
Because I actually have noticed that you have changed recently, but obviously you didn't see that, either.
I am NOT trying to change you. I don't see how I put you down, can you give me an example, maybe?
I'm sorry for assuming things, if I have done so.
But it seems like I'm the only person with the guts to say sorry when they've hurt others.
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It applies to everyone that feels this way
and it isnt directed at anyone, but at EVERYONE
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Dave - Don't make assumptions.
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Im Saying its general, in my last comment i said it wasnt directed at her!
She doesnt need it to be explained to her, im sure she can figure it out
Its more directed at people like you than at Kari
I think Karis awesome and shes good to talk to, but i dont think u know what the heck ur talking about!
I dont have any problem with Kari, she seems completely awesome and i think jon found sum1 incredibly nice
But i cant figure out how this has anything to do with you
U say that u care, well than listen and take notice...
Get your nose out from where i doesnt belong and stop telling my
who i am, i dont know who the heck i am....
but i can tell you for a fact
i dont want to be the person u keep telling me i am
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just wanting to rant and thus forth took it out on suzi?
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second- suzi you have no grounds to say something like that to dave and you know it.
erika- talk to your boyfriend
in general- dave has tried so hard to make himself a better person. he is not the same any more. accept it. and as he said, if he doesn't even know himself, how could you? i am tired of people still saying the same things about him. its different now. why don't you see it? I have actually spent the time to try to get to know this new person. why don't you, instead of whining about the same old things. if you dont want to deal with it then shut your mouth, because im sick of it.
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kari, i love you.
dave, whoa calm man. suzzi, said what? two sentences...wayy too much tension.
suzzi, not the best way of putting things.
erika, you're puerto rican.
smiley, good words, good words.
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wanderingwitch13: hahaha
wanderingwitch13: that kid is amazing
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and im not the only one thats noticed it...
for sum reason, Suzi thinks i hate ur gf
and she needs to realize she doesnt know what i think becuz she doesnt take the time to ask my opinion
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I would respond to what people said, but I feel slightly intrusive being as I've only actually talked to you and Suzzi in person.
I'll leave it at this: OY VEY.
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Okay. All I said was, "Dave, don't make assumptions." I never once tried to tell him who he was. What I meant by that was that he doesn't know that people don't take the time to try and figure him out. Maybe they do, and maybe he doesn't see it.
I also never said that I think he hates Kari. He made an assumption that I thought that. Wonder why I said, "Dave, don't make assumptions?" That's one reason. He also assumes that I don't care about him which is NOT true. Personally, I've been having a rough time lately and showing Dave that I care isn't really my top thought right now, sorry.
Now is my turn to apologize, because I assumed that Kari thought Dave didn't like her, which apparently he does. From conversation with Kari and stuff, I got the impression that she thought that Dave had an issue with her. I don't know what Kari thinks, I suppose, and I'm sorry for making that assumption.
Dave, I understand why you think that I don't care. But once, when I came to you wanting to help you out, you told me that if ( ... )
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I didnt make assumptions of you thinking i hate Kari
Sum1 else was the one that told me that u thought i hated Kari
So, ur making the assumption...that im assuming
i dont have any problem about u not caring, ur the one that brought that into it
i really dont care if u care about me, i cant stand u always puting me down
i've been trying to stay serious for the past week or two, and eventually
i make a totally dumb-ass statement and u tell me to shut up and tell me to stop being so stupid
I'll say what ever the fuck i want, u cant change that, im a fucking air head and enjoying myself and by putin me down ur unconsiously trying to change that.
and you always think im mad at you, im just telling you how u come off to me and others....
and honestly, i'd rather u not know me...
Because then u couldnt pass judgement
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"i've been trying to stay serious for the past week or two, and eventually i make a totally dumb-ass statement and u tell me to shut up and tell me to stop being so stupid"
Because I actually have noticed that you have changed recently, but obviously you didn't see that, either.
I am NOT trying to change you. I don't see how I put you down, can you give me an example, maybe?
I'm sorry for assuming things, if I have done so.
But it seems like I'm the only person with the guts to say sorry when they've hurt others.
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