I have a problem. Not a big problem. A problem that shouldn't even exist, but it's my fault. Ok, I have been single for many years now. What's a girlfriend? I wouldn't know. So now I have this girl that I met at the comedy club. (It's Jen for those who don't know by now.) I like her and we've actually kissed a couple times, but I'm talking to her
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The girls that say the whole "fat, ugly" thing just do it for attention. They want to force you to give them a compliment b/c of their low self-esteem. Low self-esteem leads to crazy nutcases. Crazy nutcases lead to coming home finding that your wife just killed herself and your kids....
Think about that one for a minute. You aren't being too picky ;-)
In the event that this doesn't come across as such, this was supposed to make you feel better... :-D
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Speaking as a person with horrifically low self-esteem who is just beginning to learn the art of masking inecurity:
Alot of times, people will remark that they are fat/ugly/stupid not as a way to gain compliments, but as a way to show that they would never DREAM of having the gall of putting themselves on par with humanity. I used to do it all the time to show that there was no reason to hate or dislike me, I knew my faults and I wasn't going to embarass myself or anyone else by reaching above my station. Is this a correct way to think: no. Does it happen anyway: you betcha.
However, this DOES NOT mean that you are justified or qualified to begin a relationship with a person whose emotional problems you feel are too far over your head.
Follow your intuition.
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maybe you are too picky. maybe youre like me...you get close to someone you like and then you blow it cuz youre scared of what could happen. im not saying you are, im just sayin is all.
and dont think it all has anything to do with you. youre a great kid and youre funny and totally good looking so maybe its all these dumb girls! haha.
love ya kid.
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