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[deadvows]

any of you still talk to your ex bf's? I guess, I'm still weak like that. I still talk to shane after all he did to me. Cause, I know right now I can't survive without his non=returned tainted love. He was the first guy to acually accept me as who i am. That was two years ago..why did that change? I thought he was in love with me until I discovered

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[evokes]

Actually i am still friends with one of my exs, Alex infact. Thankfully however, Alex does not act like shane. But genuinely cares about me and we've been through so much together its hard not to talk...

[sunstrokes]

I no longer talk to my one and only ex. I spent two and a half years with him, blaming myself for the actions he made. It wasn't until I stepped away from him, stopped contacting him, that I could really grow and see he was in the wrong, and not I. You can't put the blame on yourself. He fucked up. You did all you could do, gave him all you had, and HE fucked YOU over. Not the other way around.

[vikusias]

i sort of talk to mat after like three years, he'll speak to me on msn and pretend to be really nice even though he was an abusive cunt. apparently he still ~loves~ me but he's not worth it, he can deal with his mistakes. never ever getting back with him

[life]

Don't apologize, it makes perfect sense. I have that same problem. It's like, once I date someone, I take a piece of them wherever I go. I don't date just for "fun"--I have to really, really like someone, so once they leave or it just doesn't work out I always have this inner voice saying "its meant to be, just not right now." So I keep my hopes up--until they fuck them up again. I hope you get through this without turning to cutting, eating disorders, or weed.. Just know that you're not the only one. :/

[pnaykittie]

oh dear. don't apologize. it's hard getting over boyfriends, no one expects you to just SNAP back to normal just like that. espesically since you dated him for 2 years.. but.. just like everything else, people change. it's hard to accept when they change for the worse, i'm sorry dear. <3

i talk to one of my ex's. actually we're in the process of "talking" again, something i never thought would happen. so ANYTHING can happen! and maybe someday shane will realize that he lost something great.

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