Life is Short...........

[dearabby]

I don't know why, I can't help it, it is just the way I am. I have always been one to want to try and make things better, for people to always get along. I hate it when someone is mad, and there are bitter words being said, out of anger. Most of the time, it is always about something that is so stupid that it is funny. I realize how short life is

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It's Jeff

[yenz12]

I'm going to take a wild guess that the last sentence of your entry somewhat deals with the past weekend and the events that took place. Mikey has stated he made a mistake and regrets it. I'm glad he said this, I respect the honesty. I myself don't regret anything that happened. Regrets usually occur after one has assumed they did wrong. I did not do one thing wrong this past weekend. Don't mark my word but I think I know a few others that have no regrets from this past weekend. I don't want to try and hide behind this livejournal in order to avoid speaking verbally, but if anyone wants to know how I feel come up and ask me, I'll express my feelings face to face or over the phone.

Re: It's Jeff

[dearabby]

Jeff, I appreciate you being honest, but you know, I still don't understand what in the world happened. Maybe you should tell everything you seen, What I do know for sure is one person in general has took the blame for something others admitted in doing, and things said by me to others was totally and deeply exagerrated. You can ask my husband, he was with me the whole time I was on the phone with people. I learned the hard way when dealing with some you must have witnesses! However, I hold no hard feelings, we all live and learn, and hopefully after this most unusual week, everyone has learned.

I meant it when I said life is short, don't do anything you would regret later in life. I try to live by that everyday, I would like to be remembered as one who done unto others as they would like done unto them. I always held you and Sean in the highest regard, and thought you were both good friends of my kids. Was I wrong? Maybe you both never held us in the same catagory as we did you? I don't know, I guess the ball is in your court.

Re: It's Jeff

[yenz12]

Maudie there is no need to assume that this is all about what has happened over the days. I have no regret for what I did that night b/c I was lied to, to my face when I was told "I don't know what your talking about". Mikey apologized and that is all that I needed. This has nothing to do with how strong my friendship is with them. All I needed was an apologee for there actions not for all the "rumors" going around. What I am mad about is the actions I saw myself that were still being excused for some reason even after I showed I was mad about them. So there is no problem with me and mikey and this stuff needs to end instead of people keep bringing it up time after time. Last of all there is no need for you to question my friendship with your kids. What you need to question is the "respect" we've been shown for there actions that night and thats it. Thats what this whole ordeal is about.

Re: It's Jeff

[dearabby]

Jeff, being that I was not there, I do not know what happened. I only know that I would like for it to all be worked out. It is something that definatly should have never gotten so far. I hate to see years of friendship end so abruptly. Like you said Mikey apologized about the toys or whatever it was, thats what was needed, I don't understand where this bitterness is coming from. Maybe if you would let them know, then they could fix it. I only wanted you to think about all of the years of friendship, and not just let it die after one night. I didn't mean to offend you, as I stated I always held you and Sean in high regard. I hope things can be put in the past, and if not, is there anything that can be done to do that, or is it a lost cause? That is truly the question. If you say it is lost, then I will give up.

[lyddiebird]

I love you auntie:)

Ahhh!

[dearabby]

Ahhh!! I love my girls so much:)