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[dearestdiplomat]

[[Friends-only; not visible to Alba]]This weekend, I've decided to take my staff out on some outings. I love going out with my staff. Things are so much more fun in a group. Unfortunately, I can't take everyone out at once, so I've devised a system to determine who should go on which outing, based on personal preferences and how many trips each

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*Screened to Colias*

[chevrolady]

You got it, Mr. P, it's a meme! Man, I'd almost forgotten about those things. Maybe I'll fill this one out too!

Wow, I dunno who you mean in 1 and 2, but they must be a real pain in the butt to deal with. But I can like, totally sympathize with your feelings for 3, whoever they are. There's these two guys I like that I have for "neighbors" but I don't think I could ever, like, really talk to them about how much I like them. They're kind of...well, playboys. The situations are kinda' different, but yeah, it's like, really hard to tell some people how you really feel. (And, um, I guess it's not too smart to crush on two guys at once.)

[[Screened to Mimi]]

[dearestdiplomat]

If you do try it, I'd be interested to see your answers, Ms. Miney. I feel better after expressing myself, so maybe it would help you as well.

I'm not sure if you know any of the individuals I referred to. Yes, the first two are very frustrating, I'm afraid... I do try to get along with everyone, but sometimes it's difficult.

I do feel a bit embarrassed about #3, as I'm married, but I would never do anything untoward! And neither would the person in question. I'll simply be the best friend to them that I can be.

I'm sorry to hear that you're having romantic troubles, and it's a shame that you can't express your true feelings. I know how painful that can be. If you need someone to talk to, I--suppose I could help?

It may not be a good idea to like two guys at once, but sometimes these things happen, even though we might know better.

*Screened to Colias*

[chevrolady]

Don't feel bad, Mr. P! It's cool to have little crushes like that as long as, like, you don't act on them. It's totally natural to find others attractive! You can't just, like, shut that off when you get married. Thing is, you're like, already with your number one special person so no matter what, they're still the best to you! If you're loyal and remember that, I think that makes up for it!

Aww, thanks. It's kinda' complicated. One big thing is, like, one of the guys I like sort of likes me, but he likes this other girl inmate too. She's really nice and totally sweet, but I don't know how cool she is with him "seeing" us both. I'm worried about her, like, getting her feelings hurt, if not by that than by me if I tell her I like him too. Ugh, this is so embarrassing...

[[Screened to Mimi]]

[dearestdiplomat]

It's simply embarrassing, as I'm a grown man! I feel quite silly about it, getting so giddy. Though it's not as if I didn't tell my husband--we're open about such things. You're right, some people might think such feelings should end with marriage, but they don't.

Ah, I understand. I was in a similar situation once, at Diplomatic Academy. I was rather a free spirit then!

These things can be difficult, I know. I find it's always best to be as honest as possible, though I've never been in prison, so I'm not sure if things are different there. I hope things work out for you. It's admirable that you're so worried about the other girl's feelings being hurt.

[henamesthesky]

Things are more fun in a group. Your staff outings sound like fun. I never wanted to work in a office, but if it were an office like yours, that would be different.

It's good to be able to express your feelings in a way that makes you feel better but doesn't harm others. Maybe I'll do your meme, Mr. Palaeno.

[dearestdiplomat]

I love working in the embassy, because I'm surrounded by staff, and there's always someone to talk to or something to do. I do try to make working here fun, as well, so I hope it is a place people like working in. Thank you for the compliment, Mr. Ken!

Oh, you certainly should do it. I'd be very interested to see that. I haven't seen it done by anyone I know, it was something I found randomly.

[nosugar_nomilk]

I agree with Ken up there--it's good to be able to get things out in a non-harmful way. I guess peaceful resolution is something diplomats know best, right?

Also, I forgot to answer your question in my last letter--I'll be happy to read the play over for you when it's done. It sounds entertaining, to say the least.

[dearestdiplomat]

Yes, peaceful resolutions are something we diplomats specialize in.

I do feel much better now! So I think it worked. Perhaps you could try it?

Thank you very much, Mr. Armando! I wanted to have a few native speakers look it over for me, just to be sure. I'm trying my best to make it an enjoyable read, so hopefully it will be.

[nosugar_nomilk]

For the most part, there isn't anything I want to say that I wouldn't say outright.

Who could fail to enjoy a play about murders at an embassy and intrepid investigators? Not me.

[duck_gimshoe]

Are any of those things about me, pal?

[dearestdiplomat]

Oh no, Detective, not at all. We're good friends, I certainly wouldn't keep anything like that from you! Most of them aren't even American citizens.

[princess_paups]

Oh my, a secret attraction! How bittersweet and exciting! I know just how you feel Mr. Ambassador.

[dearestdiplomat]

Yes, I suppose it is exciting, now that you mention it!

It's nice to have someone that you look forward to talking to. It adds a little thrill to the day and puts a spring in your step.

I'm glad you understand, Ms. Paups.