don't go looking...

[deathboy]

Had a dream last night about some people from university I haven't seen in 15 years or so

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[andrewducker]

You haven't done anything wrong.

You found someone, and discovered that their husband had had cancer.

That's all.

It's a sad thing, but the world is full of sad things, and you haven't made it any worse, by looking for someone because you want to be their friend.

[deathboy]

Yep, you're right of course, mate.

I was just subject to quite a gamut of emotions and a bit sad / flabbergasted.

[the_siobhan]

Look at it this way, hearing from an old friend is often a good happy-making thing. Life needs more of those.

Coincidence

[disgruntledgrrl]

Your "West end Girls" cover cropped up on my winMedia player today. Work's rotated me through 3 fucking laptops and somehow your song was still in there.
And I'm not surprised to see you posted today.

Honestly ..

I think you need to make a song about. Not talking like Elvis Costello's "Veronica" but what you ran into here: this is very much the Now. In an hour you knew everything that had happened without her even speaking a word. In an hour you were suddenly spun around and caught a glimpse in a mirror. In an hour - you watched a lifetime.
When do we celebrate and when do we mourn?

[ephemera]

That sounds like a real emotional roller-coaster. I hope you are able to reconnect with her, though.