Ok so I figured I had better update, especially since I have added a couple of new friends and not updated since then, which basically just means I've been lurking around their journals which is pretty creepy if you ask me. SO wihtout further ado
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i think that if you can get along with him and you can see yourslef living happily ever after, go for it. dan and i didn't have fireworks and warm fuzzies while we were dating really. we had a LOT of fun...but i mean....i wasn't attracted to him really until after we were engaged. what made me realize he was "the one" was that after a 12 hour date, i missed him. and called him when he got home. after that date, we talked on the phone every day. :)
i hope i helped instead of just reminising about the prechild days!
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But I would tell you, don't be so quick to break it off. Chemistry is a hard thing when it comes to frum couples. There is so much you can't do , you know what I mean? Just don't do something you may regret. Also, have you ever gone somewhere fun on a date and not had a good time? (Like a sports center or something)
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Maybe you should not see him a little bit and see if you miss him? I'm probably not the best one to give advice in this area - I knew my husband for about a month and a half before we got engaged, and we had lots of fun. We had to settle down to talk about serious stuff.
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and as for not being himself, he told me he was being silly and funny becasue he knows girls like that. weird?
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i've never met dov, and until this post thought that you were happy with him (was even looking forward to pretending to be married to eli at the wedding!) but if you're not, it doesn't seem right just to stay with him b/c you feel like it's time to get married. i know it's not like this in your community, but im really a firm believer in getting to know someone really well first. cuz how else will you know if you're really compatible? it's something to think about.
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thanks!
ellen
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(total random, I realize.)
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yes, I did marry him, we're very happy together, and we have one daughter and one on the way :-)
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