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[debzi_f]

death, what the fuck is with that?? do people ever get over it?? no i dont think they do. especially when people rely on themselves to deal with it and then they find out that they cant handle it. seriously, i've been trying to deal with freinds going through dealing with it right now, i dont have a clue wot to say to encourage, wot to deal with,

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[jessicarse]

Debs, that is actually the most interesting thing I've read in ages, anywhere, and it really made me think about stuff, and it helped put things in perspective. I'm a bit sun-strokey at the mo so don't quite understand what the point you're making is... but your selflessness just makes me smile and feel all warm inside.
Life's always worth living, even through the down parts, because you emerge in the end feeling proud that you're tougher through the experience, and you learn to brush things aside and just get on with life.
I think the silliest thing you can do through a tough time is to change your daily routine. If you carry on as normal, you'll back to 'normal' quicker and easier, rather than altering stuff, you can almost act as though nothing has happened in a way. Don't let the person going through a hard time give up anything they usually do and enjoy.
Facing fears helps too. I'm just wittering a load of crap at the mo, I need water.
Don't abandon your needs though Debs, you're important too.
Loves ya xxxx

[jillzebub]

it's really good to see that someone's being positive about things :)
love you debzi, i dont realise how much i miss u sometimes!