My dad signs on-line and tells me he has had a headache for 58 days and finally had an MRI. We discuss this and it seems he is doing ok, considering
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He'll see it with time - but that doesn't make it any easier for you to hear now. He'll mature the same way you did. Have faith (and patience) though I know those seem to be wearing down...
Well, from his perspective, it's pretty difficult...My mom did essentially the same thing to my sister and me when my dad died, and she only moved 40 minutes away. Still, my sister and I felt like we needed to band together as a family to get through it, and here Mom was, doing what we felt was running away from us and abandoning us. It took a long time (and apologies from Mom) for us to get over it. Of course, your brother is also 18 and my sister and I had eight and six years on him respectively...teenagers are just rebellious and selfish by nature. I know - I was one!
*sigh* i hear both sides, really. i hated my mom for years and years because i had misconceptions of her and because i didnt think she loved me cause she ran away with a stranger. i forgave her. it took alot on her part. but now i know that it was the best thing i could have done cause i would be dead without her. i hope you make amends, im sure you will. and i hope your brother finds a way to make amends with your dad, too. he will regret it if he doesnt.
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