Comments | deggial: grrrrrrrr. apartments and rituals.. two of my favorite things?

deggial

grrrrrrrr. apartments and rituals.. two of my favorite things?

Jun 19, 2004 08:17

I'm behind in my class, well behind the point where I wanted to be, because all I have been doing this week is planning and preparing for the solstice ritual I am priestessing over this afternoon and also looking for an apartment, had like so many viewings so far ( Read more... )

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redbadger June 19 2004, 15:31:10 UTC

I feel you. I sowwy. Email me sometime. You can just vent if you want.

93 Degg

sending you some 'mundanity' ladymisty June 19 2004, 20:31:53 UTC

Sometimes we get bogged down in non-mundane things when what we really need to do is focus on our classes, our significant others, our daily life. Magick is not a substitute for life, and when it threatens to become it, is when ya need to take a break and be human for a while. Aren't you married and yet you speak as if he was an attachment, an aside, and speak of moving in with roomates without him? It seems something is very wrong and I don't think it's the solstice. But hey that's my 2 cents worth and don't look at me for any adivce, my own life is generally fucked up.

Re: sending you some 'mundanity' deggial June 19 2004, 22:55:24 UTC

"Sometimes we get bogged down in non-mundane things when what we really need to do is focus on our classes, our significant others, our daily life."

Well thats not the case.

"Magick is not a substitute for life, and when it threatens to become it, "

its not. I havent done anything magickal in months. This was the first time.

"is when ya need to take a break and be human for a while. Aren't you married and yet you speak as if he was an attachment, an aside, and speak of moving in with roomates without him?"

Cant afford his tastes.

" It seems something is very wrong and I don't think it's the solstice. But hey that's my 2 cents worth and don't look at me for any adivce, my own life is generally fucked up."

Well my life isn't fucked up. I'm just tired and had a hard week trying to get everything done which took longer than it was supposed to.

Re: sending you some 'mundanity' deggial June 19 2004, 22:56:16 UTC

r. wants to get an apartment and spend 10K on it. I cant do that. HE may be able to pay off his loans in a year after working but it will take me much longer.

I am just not willing to starve for taste.

bramthepale June 20 2004, 01:00:14 UTC

If ya need me to rob a bank honey.... :) Haven't done anything interesting like that in... ooops, I should stop talking now.

Tough decisions kensai1 June 20 2004, 07:32:28 UTC

I am truely sorry to hear about your difficultys and think you may be doing the right thing for now but don't let it become permanent for your marriages sake.
Both you and R. are cloistered together in an extremely stressful situation with school and bills and all so a break from each other can be healthy.
As for your ritual ,that is who you are and to deny doing your ritual is to deny being yourself if it releaves your stress even just a bit then do so immediately.
As for the rental situation with R. you are actually right in this as by adding higher bills to your living costs he is not doing you or himself any favors he would only be compounding both of your problems.
I don't think I need to pray for you too much as you have a knack of landing on your feet when things get difficult that I have faith in both you and R. in eventually doing.

Rick

Re: Tough decisions deggial June 20 2004, 07:46:37 UTC

thanks rick!

:)

nice to vent once in a while, you know?

Re: Tough decisions ladymisty June 20 2004, 14:24:46 UTC

Yeah I'm just gonna say after I posted my comment I realised I didn't know enough about your life to say what i did but oh well I have a habit of doing things impetuously. sorry

Re: Tough decisions deggial June 20 2004, 14:26:47 UTC

don't be sorry! I do appreciate your comments! This time it just happened to not be applicable.

:)

*hug*

D.

nytbeast June 20 2004, 16:05:04 UTC

Hey there dear girl!!
I am sort of going through the same stuff myself. I am moving to Boston in a month and cannot efford to live there on my own (its fucking expensive). So I am going to room with my brother who is coming from Israel to do his thesis at BU (which is the best solution so far, as the only better solution being on my own is not realistic for now)...however, as he has no credit in this country I have to get the apartment totally in my name, and they are taking me through hell for it. Very frastrating. I am still waiting for their reply. Its very nerve wracking and I had to beautify the facts of my income etc I am not sure how to move if I don't have a lease before packing up and driving all the way east, but its hard to get a lease for a place I haven't seen in person, and oh...life has been so hectic and upsetting lately (on this level anyway ( ... )