I can't really comment much because my meds don't let me say many meaningful things... but you're right. Women are crazy. I am woman, and I am crazy. So I fit that. Hmm... I don't thin kthe banking/account is true about most of us... but perhaps with yours it was yes. As for changing their mate, I don't know.. its like a less-sexual version of when men wants women to "dress up" maybe? I DUNNO HAHAAH.. I'm incoherent and so this post is pretty much useless.
But to sum it all up, I agree with you that most of us are crazy, but as crazy as we seem to you men, you men seem just as crazy to us at times ;)
I had your same attitude when it came to my...ex-fiance (still not used to that yet) I could swear that I was the man in the relationship and he was the woman. He expected me to read his mind, know what he was thinking or feeling, when he never showed it, expected me to always want to cuddle, etc etc etc etc. He also did the "my words have double meaning" thing..especially at the end. I dont know why he has a penis because he acts like most typical women.
I get pissed off by all the things you do, but I've found them in men. *grumble*
Oh and the toilet seat thing is just a case of being courteous. Especially if the woman does things out of HER way for the man (like picking up his dirty laundry or something), the least he can do is put the seat down....make sense?
Understood, but if your like me, you take equal responsibility for shit around the house.
Toilet seat is kinda, well, understood on a courtesy level, but, if said woman is going to get psycho over it, and have a fucking tantrum every time she falls in, let alone just walking by and notices it, well, the bitch needs to be laid out.
Yeah, Eric really didnt. He'd clean up some times but most of the time, I had to clean up shit. The most he'd do is do the dishes and even then, I had to ask him a number of times. You sound like the ideal guy, to me.
And yeah, getting livid about the toilet seat is retarded. I always expected Eric to put it down since I cleaned up after him, cooked his meals, etc. Never again will I go for a man who doesnt believe in equality in the household. I believe in equally sharing the chores as well and it SO doesnt work if the partner doesnt hold the same view.
oh yeah and the changing you. I didnt want to change Eric, but I would encourage him to try new things. Of course, he always took that as me wanting to change him, which wasnt true. He was SO afraid to try new things. The next guy Im with..I'd like a man who accepts ME for me. Eric was waiting for ME to change. It was very obvious he was and I told him if he was waiting for me to change, he had a long wait. He left a few days after that. I had told him that before, but obviously it meant more when he was planning on leaving soon. I could tell you many a story. *nod*
Yeah, I agree. Every guy I've been with has wanted to change me in some way. Do guys exist that actually care about/love you for YOU? Granted, Im not easy to live with..but who is? *bangs head against desk*
Good for you for hating your mom, heh. Eric was a momma's boy...scarily so.
fuck-shit. I just typed out a whole reply and this motherfucking thing swallowed it. *hate death*
um my main point was I am an ass and try to change mike... he pees sitting down so I don't have that problem, but I put the seat up at mens houses' if I find em up cause you should leave things how you find em..
and stop dating crazy bitches, we are not all that bad... blah blah, make sure your signs are compatible...
and you get what you accept. crazy women like you cause you allow them into your life. Expect more and you will get it.
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But to sum it all up, I agree with you that most of us are crazy, but as crazy as we seem to you men, you men seem just as crazy to us at times ;)
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I get pissed off by all the things you do, but I've found them in men. *grumble*
Oh and the toilet seat thing is just a case of being courteous. Especially if the woman does things out of HER way for the man (like picking up his dirty laundry or something), the least he can do is put the seat down....make sense?
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Toilet seat is kinda, well, understood on a courtesy level, but, if said woman is going to get psycho over it, and have a fucking tantrum every time she falls in, let alone just walking by and notices it, well, the bitch needs to be laid out.
Nuff said.
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And yeah, getting livid about the toilet seat is retarded. I always expected Eric to put it down since I cleaned up after him, cooked his meals, etc. Never again will I go for a man who doesnt believe in equality in the household. I believe in equally sharing the chores as well and it SO doesnt work if the partner doesnt hold the same view.
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One lesson I've learned from my mother (who I absolutely loathe) that i actually took to heart was:
You cannot change another person, it's impossible. It's hard enough to change yourself.
So why even try changing someone else? It causes nothing but strife.
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Good for you for hating your mom, heh. Eric was a momma's boy...scarily so.
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um my main point was I am an ass and try to change mike...
he pees sitting down so I don't have that problem, but I put the seat up at mens houses' if I find em up cause you should leave things how you find em..
and stop dating crazy bitches, we are not all that bad... blah blah, make sure your signs are compatible...
and you get what you accept. crazy women like you cause you allow them into your life. Expect more and you will get it.
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