hard one

[delia_deville]

My mother died in December, the day before Christmas

Comments

[sea_of_change]

Much love and healing to you, Delia. I'm glad to see your words here.

[xtingu]

I can't imagine what you're going through... I can only imagine it's not easy.
I'm so sorry. Genuinely, truly.

Thanks for sharing it.

*hug*

[sheilagh]

*hugs you*

[cowboyjesus]

Maybe it will come back. You never know

[thirtiesgirl]

So sorry you're going through this, but glad you're writing and healing. I have a complicated relationship with my mom, too. She has a personality disorder and was an abusive and manipulative parent. I moved to a different town, away from her in 1997, but maintained a relationship with her and would visit a few times a year. She's now 90 years old and for the past 6 years, her health has seriously started to fail, including growing dementia. This has changed our relationship to a certain extent, but I still have a lot of anger towards her. I may be facing her loss in the near future and don't know how I'll handle it. I can only imagine how many emotions your mother's passing brings up for you, but I understand how confusing and frustrating it must be to try to process them.