Holy crap! I am glad he calmed down and is trying to accept these things about you. That's a lot of things to take in all at once for someone who is as traditional as your father (Poly and bi are each Big Huge Deals for a lot of people, as individual issues), so it says a lot about his love for you and his character that he was already trying to accept both of these new pieces of information before the end of your time with him in one day. Perhaps it would be helpful, for his understanding, if you made it clear to him that it is okay to ask questions when he has them? This may also be a bit awkward, but it will ultimately reassure him even more that you are both healthy and sane, and that you aren't making horrible choices with your life or your heart.
Well done for coming out to him with these things. That's a big huge deal and you should celebrate your personal accomplishment here. That took a lot of guts, sugar. I am very proud of you for coming out. That's just awesome!
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Well done for coming out to him with these things. That's a big huge deal and you should celebrate your personal accomplishment here. That took a lot of guts, sugar. I am very proud of you for coming out. That's just awesome!
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Congratulations and good luck with the awkwardness. Hope it doesn't last too long.
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