Comments | dem0nicangel: Fragmented pieces fall apart.

dem0nicangel

Fragmented pieces fall apart.

Sep 14, 2003 11:38

It seems to be when I’m too busy to care..that I’m the most attractive to other people. It’s always the inopportune moments that this occurs. A friend reveled some very deep feelings toward me last night. I'm still trying to sort through things a figure out how I missed the signs. That’s a hug no-no in the friendship book. Instead of acting on my ( Read more... )

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pepfin September 14 2003, 09:24:30 UTC

So you only have feelings for them as a friend, or you might be swayed into feeling differently once the shock of the news becomes comfortable?

dem0nicangel September 14 2003, 10:15:43 UTC

I don't think so. I think of him more as my brother. I can't ever picture me with him. Not to mention I'm with someone. UGH this is such a mess! ::cringe::

crossing the line... picture_kept September 14 2003, 16:47:39 UTC

Well....

Here's my two cents....

Remember his feelings first and foremost. But be honest with yourself...and with him. Let him know how much he means to you, and how much his words have touched you, but that you would rather honor your friendship than risk losing it through a dating situation.

Realize he might not see it your way. Give him space and time. But let him know you're always there for him.

You're very lucky that someone loves you. It certainly doesn't happen every day.

Re: crossing the line... dem0nicangel September 15 2003, 10:51:45 UTC

Yes I feel lucky..but sad on a nother note. They are a wonderful person and I know they will find happiness in life.

Put it to him straight rtuxbury September 15 2003, 08:47:11 UTC

Don't mess around. Break his heart and let him move on. Maybe he won't be your friend any more but that is what it will be. Please do not in any way let him hang out there. That is not what a friend would do. Friends should be able to discuss anything and this is a very important anything.

Men like concrete answers. Don't be sweet be concrete.

Heh, two cents from someone with no connection, ain't it great!

Re: Put it to him straight dem0nicangel September 15 2003, 10:52:21 UTC

I'm not..i suggested not talking for a while and as far as going to hang out...that's NOT a good idea right now.

Re: Put it to him straight hmetal123 September 15 2003, 15:44:03 UTC

I agree with this guy for the most part. Guys like very straightforward and direct answers. We hate being led around in circles wondering what a girl is thinking. Most guys (myself included) are utterly retarded when it comes to figuring out what a girl really means when she isn't being direct.