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Every week I get an e-mail from some one I’ve met that goes along the lines of “do you hate me, what did I do wrong?”. The answer is never yes. Some people I know take my silence too personally. I go for long periods of time without seeing lots of people not because I don’t want their company or because I don’t want to talk to them, it happens ( Read more... )
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I have to say, I personally much prefer to have a really good friend who i see infrequently, than millions of acquaintances that I see frequently, but barely even know.
One of my best friends fits under the former categories. She's busy as hell most of the time, but when we do catch up, it seems like it was just yesterday that we were around each other. Plus it gives us more to talk about when we do see each other.
Hell, even for relationships, it's great to have a non clingy significant other.
Rah!
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As one who understands the detached nature of people - being one myself whether people acknowledge that or not - it's ok to be distant so long as the people you care about are ok/acknowledge it. If they can't accept that that is how you are/act then that's something they have to deal with. Not liking to get close to people is ok, so long as you are capable of it at some point in time :)
And unisfa is grand :D
xox
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