Comments | demonicaertai: Am I right?

demonicaertai

Am I right?

Oct 24, 2007 16:21

I"m sad...I understand the want to use a name for your own child. But, why would someone give up a friendship of years? I didn't want her to think I was attacking her...or her husband. But, why would you give up a friendship, and a good one. One where Chris was made the best man in there marrige ( Read more... )

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martin_mystery October 24 2007, 20:39:53 UTC

this is the thing, how many thousands of people have the same name? I mean come on! I have a nephew and two nieces that are named Jayden (or Jaden) depending on the sex.... it don't matter. There are also two Emily Rose girls in my family alone! If you end a friendship with someone like Christobell over something like that...its their loss! Yes grief is hard and yes everyone has a right no what they want but I think and its just my opinion but I think that if two people like the same name why not both use them. This whole thing of unique names is stupid, somebody has your name as well unless you just pound the keyboard.....al;kdfjal;fjd thats a good unique name and it means "Son of Light" in Sanskrit! AHHAHA! J/K but I think you get my point ( ... )

Thank you... demonicaertai October 25 2007, 01:26:45 UTC

And, I see your point about feelings for another person besides mother and father...Makes sence. So I posted the other post...That part makes far more sence now than it did earlier...

Thank you.

<3 se_mi_corazon October 25 2007, 19:03:30 UTC

Dont feel bad for your opinions about any of this... I think that i will be devastated when i face what you have but i feel it will be similar as well,I will miss my grandparents but i will break when its my own parents. Im loosing my uncle right now... Its hard...Im mourning before hes gone it feels wrong. Im mourning more than i feel i have a right to. Keep in mine any one faced with the idea of i know what you are going through from any one is going to have your feelings even if they are wrong or right or indifferent. The automatic feeling is you have no idea what i am going through!!! Pain is hard to compare. Its like comparing one broken heart to another you cant do it. You just happened to be more forward about your opinions as you always are...Which is why i love you! Your daughter has a beautiful name and there is no reason any one cant appreciate that you also wanted the name for your own reasons...Its nothing to loose a friendship over unless she wants you to go to a place and get it changed... and that is just unrealistic.