Obviously, it bothers him that you are posting stuff about your guy. However, it is your choice what you want to post or not to post... don't not post stuff just because he doesn't want to read it. He can choose to block your posts on his newsfeed too.
It's not necessary to live your own life based on how he lives his, and based on how you will react to one another. Naturally there will be jealousy, and your friends will have to be big enough to know how to help which ever of you needs help, to get through it.
A friend's charge is to help you understand life regardless of the accuracy of your perspective. They are supposed to listen to how you feel, to accept it as your genuine feelings, and to help you cope when you have a hard day. That's a friend.
The morale of right and wrong is over, the fight is over. You're divorced, and there's no more space in your life for that. Deal with the feelings as they are, and don't let anyone stomp you for how you feel, because you will know you are taking care of yourself as best you can.
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A friend's charge is to help you understand life regardless of the accuracy of your perspective. They are supposed to listen to how you feel, to accept it as your genuine feelings, and to help you cope when you have a hard day. That's a friend.
The morale of right and wrong is over, the fight is over. You're divorced, and there's no more space in your life for that. Deal with the feelings as they are, and don't let anyone stomp you for how you feel, because you will know you are taking care of yourself as best you can.
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