I need advice

[deniedxpassion]

Okay, if anyone reads my lj anymore (besides Jenna), I'd really apprectiate some advice. It's in the love/relationship department. (I know. Weird, huh?) Anyways there's this guy, and I seriously kind of like him. He and his family came over yesterday for the Super Bowl (Yay Steelers!) and we hung out. He's now prone to hugging me which makes he

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[shebleedsgreen]

honestly randal, the last few sentences of this entry made me decide against him. age is not a problem and his family can be won over. but the fact that he flirts like that with every girl is what threw me off. i'm an extremely jealous sort (and you are too, don't deny it ;p), and if my guy was all over other girls, i'd punch him in the face AS WELL as the girl he was flirting with!

this sort of sucks because it contradicts what i said in my LETTER to you (which i sent out on saturday so you should get it soooon). but anyways, you deserve a guy who is all about you and doesn't even notice when other girls are attempting to get his attention. you are great and you shouldn't settle for anything less than spectacular!

♥

[deniedxpassion]

On the one hand, I totally agree with that. But on the other hand, I'm TOTALLY flirty, and I'm not going to change anytime soon. Isn't it a double standard if I tell him that he can't flirt, but I can?

[shebleedsgreen]

yes definitely it's a double standard. and if you're okay with him flirting with other girls, by all means go ahead and do so. i'm just saying that i wouldn't be comfortable with it, and i don't think you would either.

look how you reacted when you found out he acted like that with all other girls. you were disappointed, let down, and hurt. can you really face that sort of feeling day after day?

in all honesty, i don't think i could. :-\

[deniedxpassion]

Grrr...I hate boys!

[darkbeautyazn]

Eh... age doesn't matter all that much, and the family liking you? that's secondary. But, I have to agree with Jenna, a guy that's gonna be super flirty with a bunch of girls? Naw, not bf material!!

[deniedxpassion]

Okay, let's not be hasty, and throw the "b" word in there. I was just talking about "dating." Haha.

[darkbeautyazn]

well why would you wanna date someone if you weren't interested in having a relationship with that person? cuz if you wanted something else, it wouldn't be called "dating" :)

[deniedxpassion]

Clarice, I date plenty of people that I never call my boyfriend...you know that, silly!

grrr

[danielle_ybelly]

I know about the mother hating department. My boyfriend's mom hates me too. It sucks and its totally awkward! ugh! I'm likable! why doesnt she like me?!?!?!