"Good, I like a whore with sentiment"
Name: Cyndi
Age: 23
Character Stamped As: Ed Wood
Relationship Crap
1) What do you look for in a significant other? Interest in me, non-judging, takes responsibility, (a not always obvious) warmness or sense of compassion, assertiveness, sense of humor
2) 3 major turn-ons? Assertiveness, Confidance, Intuitiveness
3) 3 major turn-offs? Infidelity, Emotional distance, Cruelty
4) What would your ideal significant other look like? Not really a factor. Probably a little bit more masculine than Johnny Depp though.
5) Describe your ideal date Spontaneous, unconventional, or I suppose if it has to be conventional, the movies or an outdoor concert, front and center. Or movie at home, more intimate setting. As far first dates go, one on one just makes me awkward, I need at least 2 or 3 other people to bounce off of. If we're friends first though, then go with the spontaneous, unconventional. Pull us out of our comfort zone. Possibly in that situation one on one. Depending on whether our friends would 'approve' of us being together.
6.) EITHER OR
Love or sex? Both is good, why would that be either/or?
Marriage or no? I can understand the intentions of marriage being good, but realistically, no
Looks or brains? A certain amount of brains, common sense really > looks
Money or personality? Personality, but it helps if he at least knows how to manage money
Grilled cheese or caviar? Ew, niether, I suppose I'm not 'cultured' enough to enjoy the finer art of devouring fish eggs and grilled cheese, while good, the artery congestion...maybe every once and awhile...
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7) What is your biggest personality flaw? Stubborn and possessive--though I don't really view it as possessiveness, just desire to be respected, I don't treat people like possessions, I'm not that careless with them--I don't always share my own problems, but I like for you to share yours. Wee bit of a hypocrite.
8) What really good trait could you bring to a relationship? Faithfulness, understanding, and I never make anyone do anything they don't want to, or make them feel guilty for not doing it. Acceptance. Reliability.
9) What are your definitions of “attraction” and “love?” Attraction is visual, a feeling, in your gut, or lower, may not even be for a person or particularly sexual, but something about something or someone that draws you in. Chemistry, instant reactions of like-minded, or complete opposite entities. The more you analyze the "rules of attraction" the more you realize their aren't any, they're constantly being redefined.
Love, on the otherhand, much more simple, though much more rare. Love is an act of good will towards another for completely selfless reasons. Love is sacrifice.
10)What would you consider your main interests or hobbies? Writing, film, music, helping the working man, geeking out...