Fears

[desiwoman]

So we're trying to get pregnant, but I'm in two minds. One is that I would love to have a baby, because I know our relationship, mashallah, is wonderful and fulfilling, and a baby would just make things better. However, I'm scared. Scared of pregnancy, scared of childbirth (thanks, Discovery Health!), and scared of being responsible for another

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[anonymous]

Hey we're trying to get pregnant too. I'm 35, was diagnosed with endometriosis earlier this year, had a laporscopy to remove a cyst on my right ovary, and just last week found out that my left tube is dilated. So my advice, forego the hesitation, if you have an inkling of a desire to concieve, go for it while the getting's good.:) -zarqa

[desiwoman]

Gotcha. :) And good luck to you!

[co_techie]

Zarqa - you don't live in CA do you? Does SPC mean anything to you?

Sorry I'm being so cryptic but I'm indirectly in touch with a couple (desi woman + American man) who're trying to get pregnant and she was diagnosed with the same, and had the same exact procedures as you .. and I'm weirded out to think it may be you? :-O