Ah what a great weekend...

[destiny423]

I just got back from Naples. I had a great weekend. I spent the whole weekend at Johnny's house and it was really nice. I realize more and more that when I'm home, things are great. It's when I'm up here that things get all wonky. I am planning on working on that. I know things will be better when I move home and I'm interning my ass off, and then

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[sillymouka]

i hate drama too. its hard to get away from though, isnt it? but sometimes no matter what we do... things just fall into our laps. i love you and am glad you live with me.

[anonymous]

Did you ever think that maybe the reason you can't get away from it, is because it's your fault?

[fluxxie]

Assuming you're anonymous because a, you're too cowardly to match your name with your biting comment, or b, you didn't realize that you were logged out and otherwise would've assigned your name to this..

"Your fault" is such an accusatory statement. "Your fault" is what happened when you were 4 and dropped the cookie jar on the floor, making a big mess for mommy to clean up. As we are in our 20's, we've grown out of "your fault"..

Perhaps we may do things that others don't like - we're all guilty of that as there is no such thing as pleasing everyone - but the "drama" comes from those others' reactions. It's not anyone's "fault," rather the unevitable aftermath of those who care v. those who are hurt.

PS, if you really want to assign the "your fault" label - congratulations, your completely unecessary statement, if not started drama, definately agitated it!

[sillymouka]

oh how i love you audrey : )

[destiny423]

I could not have said it better myself Audrey. Thanks! Anonymous comments are so dumb, and I should really block them... I never thought anyone of my friends that reads this would use it to hide themselves and start making accusations. In the end what frusterates me is when my friends get so angry when someone does something to hurt me, then they turn around and do the same crap. I guess that is just part of being open and showing your vulnerabilities, in the end sometimes people use them against you.