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[det_val_lanier]

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Is this just me or should a guy take some responsibility for a relationship? Like take me out to dinner or a movie without me suggesting it or giving me a call once in awhile. Is this too much to ask?

Comments

[detalex_eames]

You've been doing all the phoning and chasing? I don't know who he is, but you should stop for now and see if he calls you.

[det_val_lanier]

Thanks. I do really like him, but I'm starting to feel like I'm the only one who wants things to work out. Maybe putting the ball in his court would be the best for now.

[detalex_eames]

Yes. Aside from making him do some legwork for once, it'll show you what he wants. *shakes head* Besides, the guy is supposed to do about 90% of the chasing anyway...

[det_val_lanier]

I feel like someone should tell him that. I think I already know what he wants. This has been going for about a year or so.

[det_liviabenson]

Guys definitely should. Take a backseat for a bit though and see what happens.

[det_val_lanier]

I think that's what I'm going to do. Either I'll hear from him or I won't, but at least I'll finally know where we stand.

[nypd_millie_viz]

It depends on what you want outta the relationship. Sounds like all he wants is sex? If you're okay with that, then there's not a lotta responsibility to take...if you want more than that...then yeah, he should be doing more.

[det_val_lanier]

I want more than just sex, but I don't think I'm going to get that from him. At least now I know I want a guy who takes more responsibility.