Yup, here's the news from Boston Girl, an unimpeachable LJ source
http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/48551662.html Actually, I don't yet know BG -- whose intriguing LJ motto is "This is Onstar--why did you do that?"
But she did a great reporting job, complete with Tammy Lynn's own blog coldly recounting their up-and-down history. Seems she was holed up at their place (in Indiana) while Melissa was on tour. She quotes herself, deciding some months ago to give up her career for a year --
“sure! i’ve always wanted to make a home anyway! i’ll make a home for you and me and the kids, and you go and do your thang with your guitar!”
Bad choice!