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[deza]

I'm using this week's topic to work through some of my polyamory issues, so expect Terry Pratchett levels of footnotes and digressions (and if you haven't read the Discworld series, you really should. The man was one of the best selling UK authors of the 90s for a reason). Going into the disconnect between logic and feelings has a tendency to be a

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[shadowwolf13]

<3

[deza]

<3

[adoptedwriter]

Sounds a lot like what so many adopted people go throu in relationships re attachment issues.

[deza]

I really had never considered that. Although if there is such torment in my life from having been passed around for a summer, I can't imagine how powerfully disruptive the whole process mus be for kids who know nothing else, thank you for giving me something to muse on.

[chelona]

Our marriage therapist recomended the book "Attached." (with heart shaped magnets on the cover) for Paul and I. It was ok. But I woyld highly recommend reading Expectation Hangover. Great book.

[deza]

I just finished reading Attached last week. :) I'll have to look for Expectation Hangover.

[rayaso]

So much pain and anxiety! This was a very raw discussion of your life. I hope things improve for you.

[deza]

Things are good in that he understands where my pain is coming from, and he appreciates the work I'm putting in to move past it. I send him the links to these posts before I make them public for Idol, so he's involved and reading behind the scenes.

[deza]

I wouldn't say that. Being single was pretty damn scary too, especially when something started to go wrong and there was no one around to help me fix it!