when you start getting really interested in someone do you either jump in headfirst or do you clam up and get distant? and why do you do what you do? people somewhere in the middle need not reply!
I jump in head on. it's really rare that someone really interests me beyond beauty, personality, and sexuality. when they do, i can't help but try to pursue it to the fullest.
I totally clam up and get distant. I guess I have a fear of rejection, and on top of that, I get all nervous and out of breath, and I tend to say the stupidest shit imaginable. I know if I open my mouth, I'll make a complete fool of myself. I get really intimidated by people who wanna do it with me, so I think I try not to seem toooooo interested, you know, play it cool or whatever.
Also, I don't like rushing into things like that because I don't want to hurt somebody who thought I was interested if I change my mind. Which I'm prone to do. Often.
I don't know about anyone else but I am a lust junkie. While I would say jump in head first...Savor being attracted to someone. It's nice sometimes when someone just makes you stupid. If you think there is potential for a connection on something deeper than lust, have at it!
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Also, I don't like rushing into things like that because I don't want to hurt somebody who thought I was interested if I change my mind. Which I'm prone to do. Often.
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It's the only way I know, I tell them I dig'em, that I want to spend more time with them, how special they are etc. etc.
I usually(ok always) get burned...
Maybe I should re-think this whole honesty bit, women don't seem to like it as much as they claim.
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CAPS!
bwtf
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i can only savor that for so long... then it either turns into a friendship or im so pissed off that they gross me out.
i hate that.
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