Ok...Something new..

[dfw_collective]

OK so I was the one who posted about having the boyfriend who cheated after we had already moved in together, blah blah blah...Well now I have a slightly new problem. I am not really sure that I want to reintroduce sex into our relationship since I am not really sure I want to continue the relationship. How do you live with someone you were

Comments

[anonymous]

Well, does he know that you know what you know? I mean can you just tell him...look I don't want to sleep with you because of that" or are you just not giving it up?

[sepania]

You shouldn't feel bad at all. It takes time (if ever!) for something like that to heal. It's happened to me a few times, and it never got better. When I did sleep with him again I cried and it annoyed him. That's how you know that they don't really care about you. If they're pressuring you for it and not understanding about it then LEAVE. Yes, it will be hard, but in the end it is SO worth it. You deserve better than someone who is/has/will cheat on you. You sound a lot like me, and I know that I am fiercely loyal. You WILL find someone like that. You have to believe in yourself first though.

Good luck.

[kozmosis]

if i were with someone that cheated on me, i would have a hard time being intimate with them as well. i think it is only natural. now that he is getting upset that you wont give it up, i think that might be another good indicator of his personality. i know that some people can cheat once and never do it again, and people like that can be forgiven (as difficult as it may be), but this sounds very different. i think that you might be wasting your time trying to find the good in the situation.

[anonymous]

It sounds like you need to move on. You shouldn't have to give in to someone who was an asswhipe like that.

[alien_leg]

I'll never understand why people will stay with someone that has so little respect for them that they fucked someone else behind their back. Do you have any respect for yourself at all?