Ugh. Women drive me crazy. On one hand I can't imagine life without them...but...somehow, they always end up driving me crazy...friends, family, strangers...its somehow all the same
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Haha, thanks for the words of encouragement...but if that were true...well, this wouldn't be a problem, now would it?
The only reason you can be positive Dani, is because you don't have to deal with me all the time...lol
So far my efforts to meet new women haven't worked out so well, plus, making female friends is a one way path that once crossed, means no prospects in the future.
I think I'm going to move away and just become a hermit. I'm not managing any of my friendships particularly well now.
Women!! Hell, I'm one of them masses.. I can't be critical, but even I don't understand them. They are confusing and remind me of hot and cold water. hot one day and cold the next. Wanting something and then not wanting it. I guess I'll never understand. Whishy-washy, emotional... competitive.
Though I would say we are shallow sometimes. We judge by looks and such. I would admit to being a critic. I won't date.. blah, blah, blah.. the list goes on.. But hell, I'm out of the running when it comes to being out there. I'm on vacation and the only dating I do is with my homework.
I think you can manage graduate school and a romantic life at the same time. Whats hard to handle is a relationship going badly and school at the same time...but if you can't handle it during school, how can you handle it during work?
Still, what you say makes sense to me. Hermit mode.
Why not hang out with friends? Well, cause my very closest friends are all in relationships now (oh the irony when it was the other way around!), so the dynamic is totally different. I guess I should just shift my socializing to my single friends...
My last relationship.. The hanging out was after work. However, school has homework and study groups.. So much work.
I have to keep a tight schedule when hanging out with friends. Grad school has more work than I can ever describe in words. I tend to socialize with single people. There just isn't much to discuss with those who are taken.
Grad school gets easier after the first year. My first year was a huge adjustment. After that I found that I had time...not as much as an undergrad, but certainly a fair amount of time.
Hmm, I sound totally like your standard chauvinist when I reread this post...
Yeah, its probably just people in general. I have less of an issue with guys, but then again, I'm only looking for friendship with males. Sad thing is that I try to be friends with all the women I know...and I end up being...a friend.
Sooo...what you women are telling me is to NOT be friendly?
Just kidding. I realize that I'm probably not what most women are looking for...plus once you enter that 30s age range, people know what they are looking for...and I am obviously not it. Heh. So its easy to get put into the friends category.
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The only reason you can be positive Dani, is because you don't have to deal with me all the time...lol
So far my efforts to meet new women haven't worked out so well, plus, making female friends is a one way path that once crossed, means no prospects in the future.
I think I'm going to move away and just become a hermit. I'm not managing any of my friendships particularly well now.
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Though I would say we are shallow sometimes. We judge by looks and such. I would admit to being a critic. I won't date.. blah, blah, blah.. the list goes on.. But hell, I'm out of the running when it comes to being out there. I'm on vacation and the only dating I do is with my homework.
100% nerd..
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Still, what you say makes sense to me. Hermit mode.
Why not hang out with friends? Well, cause my very closest friends are all in relationships now (oh the irony when it was the other way around!), so the dynamic is totally different. I guess I should just shift my socializing to my single friends...
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I have to keep a tight schedule when hanging out with friends. Grad school has more work than I can ever describe in words. I tend to socialize with single people. There just isn't much to discuss with those who are taken.
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Yeah, its probably just people in general. I have less of an issue with guys, but then again, I'm only looking for friendship with males. Sad thing is that I try to be friends with all the women I know...and I end up being...a friend.
Sooo...what you women are telling me is to NOT be friendly?
Just kidding. I realize that I'm probably not what most women are looking for...plus once you enter that 30s age range, people know what they are looking for...and I am obviously not it. Heh. So its easy to get put into the friends category.
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