I've always wanted to have kids by the time I'm 25 since I want 2 max and want them exactly 2 years apart and before I hit 30.
Of course that's not really happening for me T.T I will be 26 when I get married and of course we want some alone time so I probably won't actually have the first one till I'm 28-29ish then the 2nd one around 30-31ish XD
Then again, we'll see how well the first one goes before thinking about the 2nd one, lol...
it seems it's all I've ever heard. Not that I havent heard the arguements. it's killing me though. I understand what they mean, and what they mean is what I desire. HOWEVER, that isnt going to stop me from TRYING to achive my goal, and if I dont...fine.
it's simply an ideal. I would like to have kids while I still have the energy to run around and keep up with them, play with them, and BE there for them. truth be told at 30 I probably will have that same spunk to do it, but I simply would like to be a young mom. (further more when they grow up...it'd be nice to say, be in my 50s when they're 25, no they may not wanna hang out with mom, but I'm not seriously old and decrepid and can still be around to give much unwanted advice-like my mom XD; )
In Japan, my friends family was telling me that I'm starting to get too old to have kids (i.e. basically I need to have kids now), and I'm just BARELY turning 24! So I don't understand this logic that 25 is too young to have kids. That's gotta be annoying. :( I'm in the opposite position where I'm having people tell me left and right to have kids when I've decided not to have any.
::hugs and loves:: You're ready when you're ready, and there's nobody in the world that can tell you you're ready except for you, so tell them all to get the fuck off your lawn. ^_~
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...living in the South sometimes is just crazy. XD
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I've always wanted to have kids by the time I'm 25 since I want 2 max and want them exactly 2 years apart and before I hit 30.
Of course that's not really happening for me T.T I will be 26 when I get married and of course we want some alone time so I probably won't actually have the first one till I'm 28-29ish then the 2nd one around 30-31ish XD
Then again, we'll see how well the first one goes before thinking about the 2nd one, lol...
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it's simply an ideal. I would like to have kids while I still have the energy to run around and keep up with them, play with them, and BE there for them. truth be told at 30 I probably will have that same spunk to do it, but I simply would like to be a young mom. (further more when they grow up...it'd be nice to say, be in my 50s when they're 25, no they may not wanna hang out with mom, but I'm not seriously old and decrepid and can still be around to give much unwanted advice-like my mom XD; )
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