Ah, family is family. I've been around it so much that I don't care too much about it anymore. It was just since it was all happening at once that it kind of knocked me off my feet. My only worry now is the manager
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:C I'm sorry things have been so rough! Holidays always tend to get kinda crazy. I wish I could give you better advice about how to deal with your family because I completely understand but honestly it's just hard to deal with. If you can't escape to some place in your house it always helps me to go on a walk or just go sit somewhere to get away from it all. Maybe you could go to a friend's? And I really wish I could comfort you about the cats! The person who commented before me has a good idea but maybe you could try to talk to the landlord when he is more calm or reasonable. I hope you get everything figured out, sorry things are being rough right now! :C
naw. It's a one bedroom. I guess that's another reason I'm so stressed. I get no peace. lol I'm gonna try to go out of town in about a week or so for my birthday if everything blows over well. I think I'm seriously due for a vacation. fff So far I don't have any one too warmed up to the idea of taking in cats for any amount of time.. So right now I'm thinking if I put up a good front and show him there's no cat damage of any kind (hell there's hardly any signs that cats even live here) he'll lay off. I feel everything's getting a bit more manageable right now. So I'm hopeful. c:
Aw no :C I'm sorry about the mess you've been thrown in, Angel. That is way too much for one person to handle at one time. The manager is being a total douchebag allowing dogs but not cats. If you have family or friends that can look after your cats for a little while I might have them do that. I seriously cannot believe that he's making you get rid of them. That makes me rage so hard. I hope things ease up for you and your family soon and that all problems get fixed. Stay strong we love you *hug*
I'm calling around and checking still. So far no catches.. I'm feeling a lot more level headed and hopeful right now. If I put away the litter box and cat food dishes it would be like there were no cats here at all to begin with. So I don't see why he'd insist on them being gone. If not.. I dunno. I'll figure something out. I will, Elsa, thank you! *squeeze* <3
That sounds absolutely horrible and nobody should have to go through that, especially not you. :< Your sister, just ... fhjks. Your landlord/manager sounds like a fucking dick. DON'T USE THIS THING THAT'S PRETTY MUCH A FUCKING NECESSITY IN THE HOUSE THAT'S THERE FOR A REASON~*. I'LL GET MAD AT YOU FOR DOING SOMETHING I NEVER TOLD YOU NOT TO DO~*. Dick.
And I ... really hope that everything works out. Fight and tell him that he said you guys COULD keep them, that you've had them for that long and that they've never been a problem before this -- because he seems to be overreacting. Maybe the Holidays bit him in the ass, too? And I know this sounds weird and I don't know if I'm 'stepping out of bounds' but I do live less than an hour away from you -- and if you guys honest to God need to get rid of them and have no other option, I can always ask my parents about taking them in until you guys get everything ironed out.
I hope things get better for you soon. <3 Keep strong~.
Exactly. He didn't even tell us not to use it when we moved here. shit.
I hadn't thought of that.. Tho he's also really tight on wanting to do anything here money wise. If something goes wrong he's reluctant or mad about it. I hope he's just irked off about the holidays too...
Really??? That would be amazing. I've been calling people but they were not warming up to the idea of taking them in, even for a certain time frame. If it comes down to it that would be really awesome of you if you could! <33 My battle plan consists of making sure everything in this place is completely clean and show no signs of cats except the obvious food dishes, litterbox, and the cats themselves and even some tears if I can manage it. lol I don't see why he'd insist on them going out if the place looked catless.
Naw, I thought about hiding them but they like to get in the windows and there's no real place to hide them here if the management makes one of his surprise visits. I can't see them being not noticeable ever. I'm gonna try some begging and guilting to try to keep them here. I hope that'll be enough and that he'll change his mind. Thank you Bounnnee <333
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And I really wish I could comfort you about the cats! The person who commented before me has a good idea but maybe you could try to talk to the landlord when he is more calm or reasonable.
I hope you get everything figured out, sorry things are being rough right now! :C
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I'm gonna try to go out of town in about a week or so for my birthday if everything blows over well. I think I'm seriously due for a vacation. fff
So far I don't have any one too warmed up to the idea of taking in cats for any amount of time.. So right now I'm thinking if I put up a good front and show him there's no cat damage of any kind (hell there's hardly any signs that cats even live here) he'll lay off.
I feel everything's getting a bit more manageable right now. So I'm hopeful. c:
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I'm feeling a lot more level headed and hopeful right now. If I put away the litter box and cat food dishes it would be like there were no cats here at all to begin with. So I don't see why he'd insist on them being gone. If not.. I dunno. I'll figure something out.
I will, Elsa, thank you! *squeeze* <3
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Your landlord/manager sounds like a fucking dick. DON'T USE THIS THING THAT'S PRETTY MUCH A FUCKING NECESSITY IN THE HOUSE THAT'S THERE FOR A REASON~*. I'LL GET MAD AT YOU FOR DOING SOMETHING I NEVER TOLD YOU NOT TO DO~*.
Dick.
And I ... really hope that everything works out. Fight and tell him that he said you guys COULD keep them, that you've had them for that long and that they've never been a problem before this -- because he seems to be overreacting. Maybe the Holidays bit him in the ass, too?
And I know this sounds weird and I don't know if I'm 'stepping out of bounds' but I do live less than an hour away from you -- and if you guys honest to God need to get rid of them and have no other option, I can always ask my parents about taking them in until you guys get everything ironed out.
I hope things get better for you soon. <3 Keep strong~.
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I hadn't thought of that.. Tho he's also really tight on wanting to do anything here money wise. If something goes wrong he's reluctant or mad about it. I hope he's just irked off about the holidays too...
Really??? That would be amazing. I've been calling people but they were not warming up to the idea of taking them in, even for a certain time frame. If it comes down to it that would be really awesome of you if you could! <33
My battle plan consists of making sure everything in this place is completely clean and show no signs of cats except the obvious food dishes, litterbox, and the cats themselves and even some tears if I can manage it. lol I don't see why he'd insist on them going out if the place looked catless.
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Thank you Bounnnee <333
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