KINKS. a lot of them.
Not long ago, I asked people to give me a character I play(ed) and a kink, and I'd talk about that character -> that kink. I have compiled them and organized them by characters. They're posted from the least to the most amount of kinks asked for them. ...This is a very (textually) NSFW post.
JACK
crossdressing
Jack would crossdress if he really had to, but knows he'd look terrible in it. Not particularly sexy. DOROTHY, on the other hand... >D
RAIKOU
topping
I mean, he can, he just... HE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE MUCH OF A SEX DRIVE AS IT IS. So he has to be coaxed into it. (This depends on your definition of topping too, but) If his partner preferred it, or if it felt more natural for him to assume control, then he will. Otherwise, he doesn't have a problem with giving up control either; it falls into the whole 'loyalty' thing he has going on.
blindfolds
blindfolding someone: unnecessary and pointless.
being blindfolded: for him IN THEORY he would hate it and freak out, because not being able to see is terrifying, especially when he's had the area near his eyes injured before. However, he does occasionally fantasize about it (and is super embarrassed about that), on the raaaaare occasion he fantasies. If Raph proposed it, he would go along with it. If he was, for whatever reason, having sex with some random person, he would be very much against it.
giving/recieving head
Raikou is not particularly opposed to the idea of giving head, though it does cause him a certain amount of trepidation. He's not sexually active enough for him to be at all comfortable with it or his ability to do it well, but he is willing to try if his partner is someone he <3s enough. GETTING IT, WELL. I MEAN. moving on.
69
69 is something he is Not Comfortable with, simply because the thought of being so exposed while already involved in one sexual act he's not used to is...asdfglkj. He'd be able to be convinced into it, and if he unexpectedly finds himself in that situation, he'd probably half-heartedly try to stop it, but he wouldn't full-out insist on stopping.
BENTEN
roleplay
Depends on who he's with, and what about. It may also require a certain amount of trust from him, that I think is rather rare (if not entirely missing) in most of his sexual relationships. The way I see it, he's definitely slept around since Sara died, but he's still incredibly in love with her. I doubt most of his relationships have lasted long enough for them to do anything like that. I'd actually say most of his sex is from one-night stands, and I mean. It is seriously annoying when the person you were getting it on with thought you were a girl and is thus Very Shocked when you have a hard-on.
crossdressing
BEN DOES NOT CROSSDRESS more than his usual outfit is considered crossdressing EVER. Although he does like light and floaty things that aren't very restricting and doesn't cover much, which often means girlyish things. This is because of his affinity with wind, I think. [Also it's harder for him to feel the cold since water/ice(?) is also one of his elements.]
deep throating
Sex with guys veeeeeeeeery rarely happen for him. He doesn't particularly get off on it. So. Deep throating someone is not something he enjoys or finds sexy. Getting a blow job...well. A mouth around his cock isn't particularly different, regardless of who is doing it.
foodplay
food is for eating and anything other than, say. whipped cream or chocolate syrup on someone is dumb. though I guess strawberries and champagne is fun as pre-sex too.
gags
He would dislike it because he is a vocal lover and as much of a little bitch he is he enjoys being able to hear if his partner is enjoying herself and he likes being able to say whatever the fuck he wants while having sex. He doesn't really like having things in his mouth like that, buttt he'd be okay with it if it was a once in a while thing.
tentacles
...ew
gross
no.
ESPECIALLY BECAAUSE I BET HE KNOWS YOUKAI WITH TENTACLES and they are probably not very sexy.
Gil
incest
...Gil doesn't think about sex if he can help it. And the thought of sex with Vincent is...terrifying. Not only because he already feels like a failure of a older brother as it is already, but because It Isn't Done. ...That said, if he ends up in a sexual situation with Vince... I SUSPECT he'd be too overwhelmed to really protest too much...
any type of whipping
oh god, uh ONE it depends on who it's by, TWO how much of a punishment it is, and THREE how turned on he was before it started. If it was done in a sexual situation, and was meant as pain to draw out the pleasure, he can enjoy it and easily be aroused by it. If it was started in a sexual manner but became more of a way of asserting dominance in manner that was less sexual and more punishment, his arousal would flag and he would get all the pain without any of the pleasure. If it was meant to be a punishment, plain and simple, he wouldn't be aroused by it at all.
ears vs nipple vs foreskin piercing
ears are okay! he doesn't have any particular opinion either way for it. nipple is kind of akjshdf because he's like BUT WHY and it's weird but if he ended up having one it would probably turn him on if his partner played with it. ...Foreskin just the thought makes his head explode. I don't think he'd ever get that just because. no. he would fight tooth and nail against it.
handcuffs
Having his hands restrained in any way can be a turn on for Gil, unless the situation is JUST THAT NOT APPROPRIATE and he's worrying/stressing/whatever about something else. Like those times in canon. But in a sexual situation with someone he trusts, yeah. Not being able to move his hands freely is definitely something he'd...not admit he enjoys.
deliberate bruising during sex
WELL. things like hickeys and bruises from ropes and other bonds are...more okay than from getting punched or beaten. The latter he wouldn't enjoy at all, whether it's him doing it or receiving it, while the former he probably would. But I guess...I mean, if his partner did it deliberately and he was unaware of the intention, it wouldn't really register to protest it. He wouldn't want to hurt his partner though.
striptease
...DITTO KAMUI (head exploding). they're both incredibly inexperienced when it comes to sex and sexual situations and what not...yeah. a striptease would probably end in the same way.
washing someone
........He's a servant. That's not erotic, that's part of his job. Or once was. Or could have been. IDEK. IN ANY CASE, that's not erotic unless it was like. Meant as foreplay. Or after sex. Then maybe it'd be kind of hot. But...yeah. not really, not generally.
IZAYA
bloodplay
let me preface this with FOR IZAYA, SEX IS MORE 'MEANS TO AN END' than anything else, especially at this point in his life. That said, most sex for him is used as currency, and...with the amount of enemies he's made, he doesn't trust anyone enough to risk the dangers that would come with bloodplay. He might end up really, really dead! This is if it's inflicted on him, naturally, but he also doesn't have the interest in bleeding someone for sex unless they're asking for it. In which case it becomes more a situation of pleasing his partner so they give him what HE wants and less of being into it himself. The only person this is different with would be Shizuo, partly because he knows Shizuo can take it, and partly because he doesn't! really! care! if he accidentally kills him or something. AND! if there was actually a situation in which he is having sex with Shizuo, it is probably from adrenaline after a fight orrr he provoked Shizuo, which would still cause some sort of damage done to them both before they get to the sex part. So basically, bloodplay is interesting in theory, but he has no interest whatsoever in practical experimentation.
submission
Izaya does not have a problem "submitting" to someone if it means that he'll get something he considers of equal (or more) value in return. True submission, though, is a lot different and incredibly unlikely, because it requires Izaya giving up some parts of him that are so intrinsically him that...this is what most fic writers have problems with, I think. Because Izaya does not have a problem with getting fucked up the ass, or playing the slavee in what could be a SM situation, but it's because he's playing the slave and is not actually a slave. There has to be something in it for him, and he has to be able to maintain a certain aspect of his dignity--which means he has to have a certain value of control at any given time, whether or not his partner fully realizes it.
cockrings
Izaya is fond of using cockrings on other people because it's funny to see what you can make someone do by denying them orgasm. He's a lot less fond of cockrings being used on him because it is not fun at all to lose his dignity and pride from being denied orgasm.
rimming
Izaya has no interest in rimming someone else whatsoever. He would get no pleasure from it and won't initiate it. The only time it might happen was if it was forced from him in some sort of scenario, in which case he'd like it even less. Getting rimmed...disgusts him as well, but it's none of his business whether someone else wants to do it to him. If that's what they like, well. Whatever. As long as HE gets what he wants afterwards.
branding
No, no, and most definitely not. A sign of ownership on him is, beyond anything else, a boner kill and a source of huge rage and resentment. One, it ties him down which means he can't be with anyone else, two he hates anyone having that sort of power over him, and three, no one NO ONE owns him but himself. And he has no interest in branding someone else, because he is so much of a use'm and leave'm type of guy.
piercing
Ears only! Because elsewhere is too ~kinky~ and of course he's not anything like that.m
Seriously though, the thought of it is kind of :T blaugh to him. The main reason he hasn't pierced his ears is probably just because he's lazy.
caning while bent over a desk
OKAY SO out of all the forms of paddling/spanking/whatever, caning is Izaya's least favourite because it is too easy to fuck up and actually hurt him and that is bad when he uses parkour as much as he does. BECAUSE A SUDDEN STAB OF PAIN WHILE RUNNING COULD CAUSE A POTENTIALLY FATAL INJURY especially when he's running away from Shizu-chan. ...The over a desk part he does enjoy though, as long as it's not his desk. Kyaaa~ XXX-san so perverted~~~
maid uniform
...he might show up that way to throw his partner off and then he'd tease them to hell and back. If someone handed it to him, he'd be like "Uwaa, how kinky~" and put it on and prance around. If he was drugged and the woke up like that, he'd be pissed off and humiliated and...probably still end up aroused, depending on what happens next, but would mentally enjoy it less than he would physically.
leather
He's not a huge fan of leather clothing beyond jackets, but he can see the appeal it might have for other people. He might wear leather pants on occasion to mess with someone or to reel in someone if he thought it'd help, buuut yeah, no. It's not something that, by itself, would particularly arouse him.
gangbang
HAHAHA NO!
no no no no.
...well. I mean, he might set someone up in a potential that sort of situation and then have them ~be saved~ or if it was Shizuo...take photos. But it's not arousing to him. And he would not want to ever be in that sort of situation himself. ever. no.
St. Andrew's Cross
WELL. ...that's interesting.
If he knew he had a definite way out, maybe... But I don't think he'd be willing to be restrained that way. too much loss of control :/
pony play
stupid looking, dnw.
glory holes
to use them is gross WHO KNOWS WHAT THE PERSON ON THE OTHER SIDE HAS. to service them is even worse. Ewww. and what's the point when he can't see the other person in order to ~use~ them.
incest
HE LOVES IT WHEN IT'S OTHER PEOPLE because wow that is great blackmail material! However, it's not a sexually appealing thought to him, so it's definitely more of a intellectual interest. As for himself being involved with his sisters...no, no, definitely not.
RADU
bondage or D/S play
If it was voluntary and there were clearly defined limits and/or safe words/gestures, Radu is very much okay with bondage and does rather enjoy it! He's less into tying someone up, because that requires him to do too much work (...>>;;) but he enjoys being tied up and driven nuts. He has no trouble giving up control, but prefers that sort of relationship when it's not a constant one. It'd be more difficult for him to maintain a submissive role that most D/S would require for longer periods of time, especially if his dom was a demanding one. But the thought of D/S is appealing! Except with Dietrich.
sensory deprivation
From nearly anyone but Dietrich, he is ready and willing. Headcanonly, he's definitely messed with bondage and sensory deprivation has probably come into play at one point or another. The possibility of it stretching into exhibitionism is, at once, terrifying and exhilarating to him whiiich makes it better. What he doesn't like, however, is if his partner stops doing anything for an overly long period of time, because then he has too much time to think--and that is Not Good in those sort of situations for him. As for doing it to someone else, Radu has very little interest in being a Master, so...
spanking
going along with the main theme of RADU IS OKAY WITH EVERYTHING, he is...okay! with spanking. It's not something he'd suggest on his own, or something that he's particularly turned on by, but if his partner wanted to...he'd be okay with it. It is, however, much easier to accept if they were roleplaying and it was part of their character roles.
pegging
HE'S...okay with it. I mean, he does sleep with both men and women, even if I've been kind of defaulting to talking about him with guys, buuut. yeah! If that's what gets her off! I mean, he does have sex with guys often, so...it's not really a big deal for him. I feel like (AS I DON'T ACTUALLY KNOW!) pegging is more of an issue with guys who've primarily slept with girls and see themselves as more straight than...Radu...is.... Uh... It depends on how ~skillfully~ it was done, I think. Because Radu doesn't mind toys, generally speaking, but that's not all it is.
double penetration
Theoretically, he's okay with it! Because no matter what, Methuselah bodies heal fast and it's okay if he gets hurt, as long as it's not something that'll kill him. Also, it's doable without him being hurt as long as his partners are careful. It's just that...headcanonly, his most common partner is relatively possessive. There is not an emotional attachment, but it's more of a "while you are with me you should only be paying attention to me" sort of thing. He'd enjoy it though.
watersports
That and scat are some of the Not Okay things with him. Humiliation comes in a variety of forms, and things like crossdressing or bondage/toys or iyaa master please more is mostly fine and he can get off on it, whether or not he protests it at the time! HOWEVER, he is definitely NOT aroused by humiliation that involves things like bodily wastes or causing him to lose face in public (for example: he will not wear any form of ownership (collars, brands, tags) outside the bedroom though trinkets as gifts are fine) or Ion's.
chastity device
oh I can sum that up in three letters: "FML"
he does NOT like being restricted in what he can do, and to do it at the whim of another. It would be a lot better if it was only for a few hours while he was with someone, though he'd still protest and grumble about it.
orgy
THE SAME PROBLEM AS THE ONE WITH DOUBLE PENETRATION ASIDE, sure, why not :Da
sex with an Autojaeger under Dietrich's control.
RADU AND DIETRICH AND SEX IN THE SAME SENTENCE IS NEVER A TURN ON. except it can be, because Dietrich can play pleasure as well as pain. But mentally and emotionally, it would be all negative and no positive and he would hate everything.
cock and ball torture
HM. this is interesting. hmmm. INITIALLY I want to say yes because it's always been a thing that Radu is okay with most forms of BDSM and sex play. On second thought though...I'm. hm. ...I think I'll say that to certain extents it's okay but it'd have to be with someone that he's had multiple and common trysts in the past and that there's a certain amount of trust there. And if it's anything like stretchers or cuffs, it has to come off by the end of their session.
suspension
I think he'd enjoy it! Because it's strange and different and allows for all sorts of bizarre things during sex that you normally wouldn't feel. Suspension mixed with sensory deprivation would unsettle him more, and would require a lot more...trust.
enema
...well. Whatever keeps him clean, man. I don't think it's something he'd necessarily sees as sexual; he'd prefer doing something like that on his own, in the privacy of his own bathroom.
animal play
EXCLUDING PONYPLAY because it is sort of its own thing, Radu is.....hesitant about animal play. I mean, he'd DO it, but the thought of it makes him balk more than most other things would. And he wouldn't be interested in asking it of someone else.
cage ACTUALLY BEING IN ONE, not a genital cage
No. It lacks way too much freedom (...duh) and would force him to reveal far too much about himself for him to be comfortable. Also it would remind him of Dietrich and being at someone's mercy in that way, which is totally a bonerkill. Immediate one.
threesome with Cain and Isaak
ISAAK + RADU =/= SEXY FUNTIEMS.
CAIN AND RADU'S RELATIONSHIP DEPENDED ON THE FACT THAT RADU DIDN'T KNOW WHO CAIN IS AND THAT BECOMES A MOOT POINT ONCE ISAAK SHOWS UP.
but fine, if cain insists, Radu will have sex with them. and enjoy it mostly, as long as Isaak-contact is kept to a minimum, because that is just weird. Unless it was like. Cain sitting on a chair and watching them and giving them orders to DO THIS or DON'T DO THAT or TOUCH THIS and LICK THAT. because otherwise, Isaak and Radu Would Not Have Sex.
shaving
someone with a blade that close to his bits is a bit...terrifying. EVEN IF METHUSELAH LIMBS ARE RETACHABLE it's still. ....erk.
also he's already enough of a baby of court, he...really doesn't need any more indications of being v young, which seems to be part of the appeal? Other than how it ~feels~ and the trust involved. I MEAN... I guess he might do it himself once or twice, but... It's not something he's particularly interested in trying, nor in doing to anyone else.
maid uniform
...........well if he must.
no that's a lie, he'd think it was hilarious, as long as he didn't have to leave the room in it.
KAMUI
pain
As far as he thinks, sexual things should be between two people who love each other very much and it's all very fluffy and vanilla and gives you warm and fuzzy feelings.
er.
THOUGHTS on having it applied to him is mostly a DNW. He kiiiind of knows abooout BDSM and that whole culture, in that if you asked him "what do you think of BDSM" he'd go :? at you, but there's still this sort of...peripheral notion that some people get tied up for sex though he can't figure out why. BUT UH. He...is a bit of a masochist, I'd say. And if applied properly and with the right amount of stimulation, I would definitely think he'd be able to get aroused and, very ossibly, get off on being the pain from being hurt. NOTE: this applies to physical pain. Emotional or mental attacks are more likely to make him shut down unless done in a way that is designed to make him ~feel more~. Because killing Kotori in front of him was not and never will be seen as erotic by Kamui.
crossdressing
Kamui is not interested in dressing up, period. Most of his clothes are function > fashion. He doesn't mind dressing up, if someone else picks his clothes for him and/or if the situation calls for it for whatever reason. That said, he's more likely to be blushy and flustered in whatever he's wearing. Once it hits crossdressing, he'd be even more blushy and flustered! If it's in the privacy of a bedroom (assuming you'd be able to get Kamui into one for sex in the first place??) he'd be a lot more okay with it than if he was forced into public while crossdressing. It also depends on what he's wearing: a French maid costume is much much much more embarrassing than a floaty blouse and skirt, obviously. Um. If it's a sexual situation, he probably...would...end up getting turned on by it, unintentionally, which would make him even more blushy and flustered and /)////(\ about it all.
I'm also willing to believe that if someone put girly clothes into his closet without telling him, he'd wear it without realizing it.
topping
If he was topped into topping, he'd top, but topping generally assumes he has. has. ...a sex drive... THAT SAID I do think that if he really does get into...a thing...he could (possibly rather poorly try to) convince someone to start things... He doesn't really have the drive or the confidence to ~be a top~ but I can totally see him topping from the bottom as the way he used to be, before Kotori's death, or if he had gone Dragon of Earth instead. DOES...THAT MAKE SENSE...?
collars
...the thought of them is terribly embarrassing and he would protest having one put on him, but if someone he was at all vaguely attracted to put one on him and was like "leave it on :|" he would leave it on. and try to hide it with his clothes. He'd get a thrill out of it 8(a that he would try to squash and not admit at all. NON-SEXUALLY, collars as a simple accessory, he'd wear if it was there and not really think more of it.
vibrator/buttplug
oh god, uh. give him a moment to adjust and then he'll be squirming and writhing and all that fun stuff. he would definitely be scared before it went in and while it was going in and protest and do all the "t-take it out, it's strange...!!" things, but...well. I mean. THOSE THINGS ARE generally DESIGNED TO FEEL GOOD and considering him and his sensitivity...yeah. That said! The thought of using one on his own wouldn't even occur to him.
wearing a vibrator/buttplug under his clothes all day
OH GOD. He would end the day incredibly needy and horny and embarrassed about it. Hell, he would spend the entire day needy and horny and embarrassed about it and trying not to be too obvious while people seem to have NO CONCEPT of space because he gets draped on and touched a lot. Buttplug would be...more tolerable, while a vibrator would slowly drive him nuts. I imagine tears would come into play whenever he finally gets relief and/or touched.
paddling
Hmmm.
There's this thing. Kamui can get off on pain, I think, but at least initially, it has to be pain melded with pleasure. On the other hand, it'll also have to depend on positioning, who the other person is, and what they're doing. If it's delivered as pure pain, it is nothing more than a punishment and humiliation, and Kamui may...end up half-hard but it isn't something he particularly enjoys. That said, if it was delivered as a tease or as a precursor to teasing or even, well. like in spanking where it can be done in a way with MUCH MORE FRICTION... I think, yeah. He'd end up enjoying it and getting off on it and feel horribly embarrassed about it. (that "horribly embarrassed" part is a running theme for him.)
Master/slave roleplay
Ah...depending on who it was, Kamui would totally do it (with some coercing possibly necessary). He's like. Kamui's a natural born submissive and he's sensitive and inexperienced enough to derive pleasure from practically anything, if his Master was trying to arouse him. The "roleplay" aspect of it is actually probably more difficult for him than actually being a slave, because it implies that their usual relationship isn't like that and that Kamui'll have to...relinquish control at the very begining. That said, doing so will probably also arouse him, as much as he may deny it. ...Being a Master is not very interesting. He's not creative or controlling enough for that.
foot fetish
weeeird. it doesn't make sense to him @@ FEET ARE JUST FEET why would anyone be interested...
dirty talk
WELL I'LL TELL YOU ONE THING. "I'm going to kill you" DOES NOT GET HIM OFF.
hearing it will basically cause him to go from normal to dayglo red in about thirty seconds. and he'll be aroused by it, even as he begs asks his partner to stop it aksjdh ＞/////＜and what not. Getting him to do it would take a fucking miracle and...he'd feel incredibly awkward and probably rather scared while attempting it and it would be hilariously terrible, but it...wouldn't be a turn off for him.
punishment humiliating stuff like standing in the corner or washing his mouth out with soap, or physical punishment that is intended to cause pain and not be pleasurable in any way.
It's unlikely to end in sex at all because Kamui wouldn't enjoy it.
striptease
...I think his head would explode before the other person finishes, if he was getting one. Giving one...would be hilarious in how awkward and poorly done it was. WHICH MIGHT BE ENDEARING but it would not be particularly sexy.
ageplay and/or actual May/December
If it was someone Kamui liked, it wouldn't make a difference. IN CAMP, he has this weird bizarre interest in Muraki that's not really a crush of any sort, but...haha! Yeah. Um. Er. Yeeeah, it's really more of a WHO IT IS, and whether or not he knows them, rather than...things like age or gender for him. Like, an older salaryman touching him in the train is not going to get a positive reaction. Because like. I can see him getting reluctantly aroused by Seishirou. Afore-mentioned "random salaryman" might also get a physical reaction, but is more likely to get a knee to the crotch and an elbow to the face.
tentacles
...
Er.
There will be a lot of protesting and struggling and N-NO!s going on, and then he will like it and hate himself for liking it and never feel clean again.
fingerfucking or fisting
um. THE IDEA of it is...alsjdfljaorzorzorzWHY!!? and...well. The former would probably end up happening while he's getting stretched, especially if he's already very into it and ends up arching into it and all more more please more and that sort of thing. Fistinggg the thought is even more of a D8!! than fingerfucking and he would really not like it if it was suggested to him, but...eh. AS SHOWN BY CANON he is young and nubile and flexible and...he might enjoy it? I mean, he's not as against pain and discomfort as he thinks he is. His partner has to actually know what they're doing though, because fisting done wrong is just a very very bad idea.
obedience training
MILD he'd be somewhat reluctant but mostly willing to try, if his partner really wanted it, though he'd have many disclaimers like "one time thing" or "stop if I ask" or something like that. He'd end up enjoying it, though, and it...would probably be disappointing if it didn't happen again.
MEDIUM is the sort of thing that may or may not show up in dreams for him, that leave him embarrassed to hell and back when he wakes up. Especially embarrassed that that sort of thing even managed to arouse him to the extent it would.
HARDCORE ...he'd have to...be tricked into. And he'll definitely enjoy it despite himself for the most part, though he ... probably wouldn't want it to happen again. At least not that much.
humiliation both public and private Dirty talk, being made to beg, objectification in general . . .
...There's a thrill in having to do that sort of thing in public that he would never admit and he would fight HARD against doing it. And the humiliation may end up overwhelming him so that he doesn't enjoy it as much! But...there's definitely sooomething there that...he doesn't like to think about or think about at all. In private, he'd be more willing to open up, though he is too proud to cave immediately. He'd get aroused by it, and feel ashamed that he did--by both, really. um... How far he'd be okay with it going is a lot further in private than it would be in public.
denial of orgasm in any form
...well. He'd already be aroused, so he'd be very akjhdsjka DDD: about it when he's denied orgasm, but in the end, it'll...probably make it all the more intense. It's not something he'll ever propose, but he'll never fight it hard because he hates it; more because he just WANTS TO COME Q^Q!!! sort of thing.
someone watching him masturbate.
kjadshfdgfkjf oh god so embarrassing.
IT WOULD PROBABLY......actually....be kind of hot. if he knew he was being watched and the person watching was very visibly there (as opposed to, say SNEAKING STALKER and finding out later) because it's....a thrill. ~FORBIDDEN~ and ~WRONG~ and dirty and ohgod why is it making this better D'8
...I'm not sure how often he masturbates in general at all.
object penetration stuff other than dildos, vibrators, plugs, etc
AS LONG AS IT ISN'T THE SHINKEN I think he would protest and freak out and then feel horrible about enjoying it. As long as the person he's with keeps him calm, he'd...be okay... ALSO IF IT'S WELL LUBED. IT HAS TO BE LUBED.
JACK
crossdressing
Jack would crossdress if he really had to, but knows he'd look terrible in it. Not particularly sexy. DOROTHY, on the other hand... >D
RAIKOU
topping
I mean, he can, he just... HE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE MUCH OF A SEX DRIVE AS IT IS. So he has to be coaxed into it. (This depends on your definition of topping too, but) If his partner preferred it, or if it felt more natural for him to assume control, then he will. Otherwise, he doesn't have a problem with giving up control either; it falls into the whole 'loyalty' thing he has going on.
blindfolds
blindfolding someone: unnecessary and pointless.
being blindfolded: for him IN THEORY he would hate it and freak out, because not being able to see is terrifying, especially when he's had the area near his eyes injured before. However, he does occasionally fantasize about it (and is super embarrassed about that), on the raaaaare occasion he fantasies. If Raph proposed it, he would go along with it. If he was, for whatever reason, having sex with some random person, he would be very much against it.
giving/recieving head
Raikou is not particularly opposed to the idea of giving head, though it does cause him a certain amount of trepidation. He's not sexually active enough for him to be at all comfortable with it or his ability to do it well, but he is willing to try if his partner is someone he <3s enough. GETTING IT, WELL. I MEAN. moving on.
69
69 is something he is Not Comfortable with, simply because the thought of being so exposed while already involved in one sexual act he's not used to is...asdfglkj. He'd be able to be convinced into it, and if he unexpectedly finds himself in that situation, he'd probably half-heartedly try to stop it, but he wouldn't full-out insist on stopping.
BENTEN
roleplay
Depends on who he's with, and what about. It may also require a certain amount of trust from him, that I think is rather rare (if not entirely missing) in most of his sexual relationships. The way I see it, he's definitely slept around since Sara died, but he's still incredibly in love with her. I doubt most of his relationships have lasted long enough for them to do anything like that. I'd actually say most of his sex is from one-night stands, and I mean. It is seriously annoying when the person you were getting it on with thought you were a girl and is thus Very Shocked when you have a hard-on.
crossdressing
BEN DOES NOT CROSSDRESS more than his usual outfit is considered crossdressing EVER. Although he does like light and floaty things that aren't very restricting and doesn't cover much, which often means girlyish things. This is because of his affinity with wind, I think. [Also it's harder for him to feel the cold since water/ice(?) is also one of his elements.]
deep throating
Sex with guys veeeeeeeeery rarely happen for him. He doesn't particularly get off on it. So. Deep throating someone is not something he enjoys or finds sexy. Getting a blow job...well. A mouth around his cock isn't particularly different, regardless of who is doing it.
foodplay
food is for eating and anything other than, say. whipped cream or chocolate syrup on someone is dumb. though I guess strawberries and champagne is fun as pre-sex too.
gags
He would dislike it because he is a vocal lover and as much of a little bitch he is he enjoys being able to hear if his partner is enjoying herself and he likes being able to say whatever the fuck he wants while having sex. He doesn't really like having things in his mouth like that, buttt he'd be okay with it if it was a once in a while thing.
tentacles
...ew
gross
no.
ESPECIALLY BECAAUSE I BET HE KNOWS YOUKAI WITH TENTACLES and they are probably not very sexy.
Gil
incest
...Gil doesn't think about sex if he can help it. And the thought of sex with Vincent is...terrifying. Not only because he already feels like a failure of a older brother as it is already, but because It Isn't Done. ...That said, if he ends up in a sexual situation with Vince... I SUSPECT he'd be too overwhelmed to really protest too much...
any type of whipping
oh god, uh ONE it depends on who it's by, TWO how much of a punishment it is, and THREE how turned on he was before it started. If it was done in a sexual situation, and was meant as pain to draw out the pleasure, he can enjoy it and easily be aroused by it. If it was started in a sexual manner but became more of a way of asserting dominance in manner that was less sexual and more punishment, his arousal would flag and he would get all the pain without any of the pleasure. If it was meant to be a punishment, plain and simple, he wouldn't be aroused by it at all.
ears vs nipple vs foreskin piercing
ears are okay! he doesn't have any particular opinion either way for it. nipple is kind of akjshdf because he's like BUT WHY and it's weird but if he ended up having one it would probably turn him on if his partner played with it. ...Foreskin just the thought makes his head explode. I don't think he'd ever get that just because. no. he would fight tooth and nail against it.
handcuffs
Having his hands restrained in any way can be a turn on for Gil, unless the situation is JUST THAT NOT APPROPRIATE and he's worrying/stressing/whatever about something else. Like those times in canon. But in a sexual situation with someone he trusts, yeah. Not being able to move his hands freely is definitely something he'd...not admit he enjoys.
deliberate bruising during sex
WELL. things like hickeys and bruises from ropes and other bonds are...more okay than from getting punched or beaten. The latter he wouldn't enjoy at all, whether it's him doing it or receiving it, while the former he probably would. But I guess...I mean, if his partner did it deliberately and he was unaware of the intention, it wouldn't really register to protest it. He wouldn't want to hurt his partner though.
striptease
...DITTO KAMUI (head exploding). they're both incredibly inexperienced when it comes to sex and sexual situations and what not...yeah. a striptease would probably end in the same way.
washing someone
........He's a servant. That's not erotic, that's part of his job. Or once was. Or could have been. IDEK. IN ANY CASE, that's not erotic unless it was like. Meant as foreplay. Or after sex. Then maybe it'd be kind of hot. But...yeah. not really, not generally.
IZAYA
bloodplay
let me preface this with FOR IZAYA, SEX IS MORE 'MEANS TO AN END' than anything else, especially at this point in his life. That said, most sex for him is used as currency, and...with the amount of enemies he's made, he doesn't trust anyone enough to risk the dangers that would come with bloodplay. He might end up really, really dead! This is if it's inflicted on him, naturally, but he also doesn't have the interest in bleeding someone for sex unless they're asking for it. In which case it becomes more a situation of pleasing his partner so they give him what HE wants and less of being into it himself. The only person this is different with would be Shizuo, partly because he knows Shizuo can take it, and partly because he doesn't! really! care! if he accidentally kills him or something. AND! if there was actually a situation in which he is having sex with Shizuo, it is probably from adrenaline after a fight orrr he provoked Shizuo, which would still cause some sort of damage done to them both before they get to the sex part. So basically, bloodplay is interesting in theory, but he has no interest whatsoever in practical experimentation.
submission
Izaya does not have a problem "submitting" to someone if it means that he'll get something he considers of equal (or more) value in return. True submission, though, is a lot different and incredibly unlikely, because it requires Izaya giving up some parts of him that are so intrinsically him that...this is what most fic writers have problems with, I think. Because Izaya does not have a problem with getting fucked up the ass, or playing the slavee in what could be a SM situation, but it's because he's playing the slave and is not actually a slave. There has to be something in it for him, and he has to be able to maintain a certain aspect of his dignity--which means he has to have a certain value of control at any given time, whether or not his partner fully realizes it.
cockrings
Izaya is fond of using cockrings on other people because it's funny to see what you can make someone do by denying them orgasm. He's a lot less fond of cockrings being used on him because it is not fun at all to lose his dignity and pride from being denied orgasm.
rimming
Izaya has no interest in rimming someone else whatsoever. He would get no pleasure from it and won't initiate it. The only time it might happen was if it was forced from him in some sort of scenario, in which case he'd like it even less. Getting rimmed...disgusts him as well, but it's none of his business whether someone else wants to do it to him. If that's what they like, well. Whatever. As long as HE gets what he wants afterwards.
branding
No, no, and most definitely not. A sign of ownership on him is, beyond anything else, a boner kill and a source of huge rage and resentment. One, it ties him down which means he can't be with anyone else, two he hates anyone having that sort of power over him, and three, no one NO ONE owns him but himself. And he has no interest in branding someone else, because he is so much of a use'm and leave'm type of guy.
piercing
Ears only! Because elsewhere is too ~kinky~ and of course he's not anything like that.m
Seriously though, the thought of it is kind of :T blaugh to him. The main reason he hasn't pierced his ears is probably just because he's lazy.
caning while bent over a desk
OKAY SO out of all the forms of paddling/spanking/whatever, caning is Izaya's least favourite because it is too easy to fuck up and actually hurt him and that is bad when he uses parkour as much as he does. BECAUSE A SUDDEN STAB OF PAIN WHILE RUNNING COULD CAUSE A POTENTIALLY FATAL INJURY especially when he's running away from Shizu-chan. ...The over a desk part he does enjoy though, as long as it's not his desk. Kyaaa~ XXX-san so perverted~~~
maid uniform
...he might show up that way to throw his partner off and then he'd tease them to hell and back. If someone handed it to him, he'd be like "Uwaa, how kinky~" and put it on and prance around. If he was drugged and the woke up like that, he'd be pissed off and humiliated and...probably still end up aroused, depending on what happens next, but would mentally enjoy it less than he would physically.
leather
He's not a huge fan of leather clothing beyond jackets, but he can see the appeal it might have for other people. He might wear leather pants on occasion to mess with someone or to reel in someone if he thought it'd help, buuut yeah, no. It's not something that, by itself, would particularly arouse him.
gangbang
HAHAHA NO!
no no no no.
...well. I mean, he might set someone up in a potential that sort of situation and then have them ~be saved~ or if it was Shizuo...take photos. But it's not arousing to him. And he would not want to ever be in that sort of situation himself. ever. no.
St. Andrew's Cross
WELL. ...that's interesting.
If he knew he had a definite way out, maybe... But I don't think he'd be willing to be restrained that way. too much loss of control :/
pony play
stupid looking, dnw.
glory holes
to use them is gross WHO KNOWS WHAT THE PERSON ON THE OTHER SIDE HAS. to service them is even worse. Ewww. and what's the point when he can't see the other person in order to ~use~ them.
incest
HE LOVES IT WHEN IT'S OTHER PEOPLE because wow that is great blackmail material! However, it's not a sexually appealing thought to him, so it's definitely more of a intellectual interest. As for himself being involved with his sisters...no, no, definitely not.
RADU
bondage or D/S play
If it was voluntary and there were clearly defined limits and/or safe words/gestures, Radu is very much okay with bondage and does rather enjoy it! He's less into tying someone up, because that requires him to do too much work (...>>;;) but he enjoys being tied up and driven nuts. He has no trouble giving up control, but prefers that sort of relationship when it's not a constant one. It'd be more difficult for him to maintain a submissive role that most D/S would require for longer periods of time, especially if his dom was a demanding one. But the thought of D/S is appealing! Except with Dietrich.
sensory deprivation
From nearly anyone but Dietrich, he is ready and willing. Headcanonly, he's definitely messed with bondage and sensory deprivation has probably come into play at one point or another. The possibility of it stretching into exhibitionism is, at once, terrifying and exhilarating to him whiiich makes it better. What he doesn't like, however, is if his partner stops doing anything for an overly long period of time, because then he has too much time to think--and that is Not Good in those sort of situations for him. As for doing it to someone else, Radu has very little interest in being a Master, so...
spanking
going along with the main theme of RADU IS OKAY WITH EVERYTHING, he is...okay! with spanking. It's not something he'd suggest on his own, or something that he's particularly turned on by, but if his partner wanted to...he'd be okay with it. It is, however, much easier to accept if they were roleplaying and it was part of their character roles.
pegging
HE'S...okay with it. I mean, he does sleep with both men and women, even if I've been kind of defaulting to talking about him with guys, buuut. yeah! If that's what gets her off! I mean, he does have sex with guys often, so...it's not really a big deal for him. I feel like (AS I DON'T ACTUALLY KNOW!) pegging is more of an issue with guys who've primarily slept with girls and see themselves as more straight than...Radu...is.... Uh... It depends on how ~skillfully~ it was done, I think. Because Radu doesn't mind toys, generally speaking, but that's not all it is.
double penetration
Theoretically, he's okay with it! Because no matter what, Methuselah bodies heal fast and it's okay if he gets hurt, as long as it's not something that'll kill him. Also, it's doable without him being hurt as long as his partners are careful. It's just that...headcanonly, his most common partner is relatively possessive. There is not an emotional attachment, but it's more of a "while you are with me you should only be paying attention to me" sort of thing. He'd enjoy it though.
watersports
That and scat are some of the Not Okay things with him. Humiliation comes in a variety of forms, and things like crossdressing or bondage/toys or iyaa master please more is mostly fine and he can get off on it, whether or not he protests it at the time! HOWEVER, he is definitely NOT aroused by humiliation that involves things like bodily wastes or causing him to lose face in public (for example: he will not wear any form of ownership (collars, brands, tags) outside the bedroom though trinkets as gifts are fine) or Ion's.
chastity device
oh I can sum that up in three letters: "FML"
he does NOT like being restricted in what he can do, and to do it at the whim of another. It would be a lot better if it was only for a few hours while he was with someone, though he'd still protest and grumble about it.
orgy
THE SAME PROBLEM AS THE ONE WITH DOUBLE PENETRATION ASIDE, sure, why not :Da
sex with an Autojaeger under Dietrich's control.
RADU AND DIETRICH AND SEX IN THE SAME SENTENCE IS NEVER A TURN ON. except it can be, because Dietrich can play pleasure as well as pain. But mentally and emotionally, it would be all negative and no positive and he would hate everything.
cock and ball torture
HM. this is interesting. hmmm. INITIALLY I want to say yes because it's always been a thing that Radu is okay with most forms of BDSM and sex play. On second thought though...I'm. hm. ...I think I'll say that to certain extents it's okay but it'd have to be with someone that he's had multiple and common trysts in the past and that there's a certain amount of trust there. And if it's anything like stretchers or cuffs, it has to come off by the end of their session.
suspension
I think he'd enjoy it! Because it's strange and different and allows for all sorts of bizarre things during sex that you normally wouldn't feel. Suspension mixed with sensory deprivation would unsettle him more, and would require a lot more...trust.
enema
...well. Whatever keeps him clean, man. I don't think it's something he'd necessarily sees as sexual; he'd prefer doing something like that on his own, in the privacy of his own bathroom.
animal play
EXCLUDING PONYPLAY because it is sort of its own thing, Radu is.....hesitant about animal play. I mean, he'd DO it, but the thought of it makes him balk more than most other things would. And he wouldn't be interested in asking it of someone else.
cage ACTUALLY BEING IN ONE, not a genital cage
No. It lacks way too much freedom (...duh) and would force him to reveal far too much about himself for him to be comfortable. Also it would remind him of Dietrich and being at someone's mercy in that way, which is totally a bonerkill. Immediate one.
threesome with Cain and Isaak
ISAAK + RADU =/= SEXY FUNTIEMS.
CAIN AND RADU'S RELATIONSHIP DEPENDED ON THE FACT THAT RADU DIDN'T KNOW WHO CAIN IS AND THAT BECOMES A MOOT POINT ONCE ISAAK SHOWS UP.
but fine, if cain insists, Radu will have sex with them. and enjoy it mostly, as long as Isaak-contact is kept to a minimum, because that is just weird. Unless it was like. Cain sitting on a chair and watching them and giving them orders to DO THIS or DON'T DO THAT or TOUCH THIS and LICK THAT. because otherwise, Isaak and Radu Would Not Have Sex.
shaving
someone with a blade that close to his bits is a bit...terrifying. EVEN IF METHUSELAH LIMBS ARE RETACHABLE it's still. ....erk.
also he's already enough of a baby of court, he...really doesn't need any more indications of being v young, which seems to be part of the appeal? Other than how it ~feels~ and the trust involved. I MEAN... I guess he might do it himself once or twice, but... It's not something he's particularly interested in trying, nor in doing to anyone else.
maid uniform
...........well if he must.
no that's a lie, he'd think it was hilarious, as long as he didn't have to leave the room in it.
KAMUI
pain
As far as he thinks, sexual things should be between two people who love each other very much and it's all very fluffy and vanilla and gives you warm and fuzzy feelings.
er.
THOUGHTS on having it applied to him is mostly a DNW. He kiiiind of knows abooout BDSM and that whole culture, in that if you asked him "what do you think of BDSM" he'd go :? at you, but there's still this sort of...peripheral notion that some people get tied up for sex though he can't figure out why. BUT UH. He...is a bit of a masochist, I'd say. And if applied properly and with the right amount of stimulation, I would definitely think he'd be able to get aroused and, very ossibly, get off on being the pain from being hurt. NOTE: this applies to physical pain. Emotional or mental attacks are more likely to make him shut down unless done in a way that is designed to make him ~feel more~. Because killing Kotori in front of him was not and never will be seen as erotic by Kamui.
crossdressing
Kamui is not interested in dressing up, period. Most of his clothes are function > fashion. He doesn't mind dressing up, if someone else picks his clothes for him and/or if the situation calls for it for whatever reason. That said, he's more likely to be blushy and flustered in whatever he's wearing. Once it hits crossdressing, he'd be even more blushy and flustered! If it's in the privacy of a bedroom (assuming you'd be able to get Kamui into one for sex in the first place??) he'd be a lot more okay with it than if he was forced into public while crossdressing. It also depends on what he's wearing: a French maid costume is much much much more embarrassing than a floaty blouse and skirt, obviously. Um. If it's a sexual situation, he probably...would...end up getting turned on by it, unintentionally, which would make him even more blushy and flustered and /)////(\ about it all.
I'm also willing to believe that if someone put girly clothes into his closet without telling him, he'd wear it without realizing it.
topping
If he was topped into topping, he'd top, but topping generally assumes he has. has. ...a sex drive... THAT SAID I do think that if he really does get into...a thing...he could (possibly rather poorly try to) convince someone to start things... He doesn't really have the drive or the confidence to ~be a top~ but I can totally see him topping from the bottom as the way he used to be, before Kotori's death, or if he had gone Dragon of Earth instead. DOES...THAT MAKE SENSE...?
collars
...the thought of them is terribly embarrassing and he would protest having one put on him, but if someone he was at all vaguely attracted to put one on him and was like "leave it on :|" he would leave it on. and try to hide it with his clothes. He'd get a thrill out of it 8(a that he would try to squash and not admit at all. NON-SEXUALLY, collars as a simple accessory, he'd wear if it was there and not really think more of it.
vibrator/buttplug
oh god, uh. give him a moment to adjust and then he'll be squirming and writhing and all that fun stuff. he would definitely be scared before it went in and while it was going in and protest and do all the "t-take it out, it's strange...!!" things, but...well. I mean. THOSE THINGS ARE generally DESIGNED TO FEEL GOOD and considering him and his sensitivity...yeah. That said! The thought of using one on his own wouldn't even occur to him.
wearing a vibrator/buttplug under his clothes all day
OH GOD. He would end the day incredibly needy and horny and embarrassed about it. Hell, he would spend the entire day needy and horny and embarrassed about it and trying not to be too obvious while people seem to have NO CONCEPT of space because he gets draped on and touched a lot. Buttplug would be...more tolerable, while a vibrator would slowly drive him nuts. I imagine tears would come into play whenever he finally gets relief and/or touched.
paddling
Hmmm.
There's this thing. Kamui can get off on pain, I think, but at least initially, it has to be pain melded with pleasure. On the other hand, it'll also have to depend on positioning, who the other person is, and what they're doing. If it's delivered as pure pain, it is nothing more than a punishment and humiliation, and Kamui may...end up half-hard but it isn't something he particularly enjoys. That said, if it was delivered as a tease or as a precursor to teasing or even, well. like in spanking where it can be done in a way with MUCH MORE FRICTION... I think, yeah. He'd end up enjoying it and getting off on it and feel horribly embarrassed about it. (that "horribly embarrassed" part is a running theme for him.)
Master/slave roleplay
Ah...depending on who it was, Kamui would totally do it (with some coercing possibly necessary). He's like. Kamui's a natural born submissive and he's sensitive and inexperienced enough to derive pleasure from practically anything, if his Master was trying to arouse him. The "roleplay" aspect of it is actually probably more difficult for him than actually being a slave, because it implies that their usual relationship isn't like that and that Kamui'll have to...relinquish control at the very begining. That said, doing so will probably also arouse him, as much as he may deny it. ...Being a Master is not very interesting. He's not creative or controlling enough for that.
foot fetish
weeeird. it doesn't make sense to him @@ FEET ARE JUST FEET why would anyone be interested...
dirty talk
WELL I'LL TELL YOU ONE THING. "I'm going to kill you" DOES NOT GET HIM OFF.
hearing it will basically cause him to go from normal to dayglo red in about thirty seconds. and he'll be aroused by it, even as he begs asks his partner to stop it aksjdh ＞/////＜and what not. Getting him to do it would take a fucking miracle and...he'd feel incredibly awkward and probably rather scared while attempting it and it would be hilariously terrible, but it...wouldn't be a turn off for him.
punishment humiliating stuff like standing in the corner or washing his mouth out with soap, or physical punishment that is intended to cause pain and not be pleasurable in any way.
It's unlikely to end in sex at all because Kamui wouldn't enjoy it.
striptease
...I think his head would explode before the other person finishes, if he was getting one. Giving one...would be hilarious in how awkward and poorly done it was. WHICH MIGHT BE ENDEARING but it would not be particularly sexy.
ageplay and/or actual May/December
If it was someone Kamui liked, it wouldn't make a difference. IN CAMP, he has this weird bizarre interest in Muraki that's not really a crush of any sort, but...haha! Yeah. Um. Er. Yeeeah, it's really more of a WHO IT IS, and whether or not he knows them, rather than...things like age or gender for him. Like, an older salaryman touching him in the train is not going to get a positive reaction. Because like. I can see him getting reluctantly aroused by Seishirou. Afore-mentioned "random salaryman" might also get a physical reaction, but is more likely to get a knee to the crotch and an elbow to the face.
tentacles
...
Er.
There will be a lot of protesting and struggling and N-NO!s going on, and then he will like it and hate himself for liking it and never feel clean again.
fingerfucking or fisting
um. THE IDEA of it is...alsjdfljaorzorzorzWHY!!? and...well. The former would probably end up happening while he's getting stretched, especially if he's already very into it and ends up arching into it and all more more please more and that sort of thing. Fistinggg the thought is even more of a D8!! than fingerfucking and he would really not like it if it was suggested to him, but...eh. AS SHOWN BY CANON he is young and nubile and flexible and...he might enjoy it? I mean, he's not as against pain and discomfort as he thinks he is. His partner has to actually know what they're doing though, because fisting done wrong is just a very very bad idea.
obedience training
MILD he'd be somewhat reluctant but mostly willing to try, if his partner really wanted it, though he'd have many disclaimers like "one time thing" or "stop if I ask" or something like that. He'd end up enjoying it, though, and it...would probably be disappointing if it didn't happen again.
MEDIUM is the sort of thing that may or may not show up in dreams for him, that leave him embarrassed to hell and back when he wakes up. Especially embarrassed that that sort of thing even managed to arouse him to the extent it would.
HARDCORE ...he'd have to...be tricked into. And he'll definitely enjoy it despite himself for the most part, though he ... probably wouldn't want it to happen again. At least not that much.
humiliation both public and private Dirty talk, being made to beg, objectification in general . . .
...There's a thrill in having to do that sort of thing in public that he would never admit and he would fight HARD against doing it. And the humiliation may end up overwhelming him so that he doesn't enjoy it as much! But...there's definitely sooomething there that...he doesn't like to think about or think about at all. In private, he'd be more willing to open up, though he is too proud to cave immediately. He'd get aroused by it, and feel ashamed that he did--by both, really. um... How far he'd be okay with it going is a lot further in private than it would be in public.
denial of orgasm in any form
...well. He'd already be aroused, so he'd be very akjhdsjka DDD: about it when he's denied orgasm, but in the end, it'll...probably make it all the more intense. It's not something he'll ever propose, but he'll never fight it hard because he hates it; more because he just WANTS TO COME Q^Q!!! sort of thing.
someone watching him masturbate.
kjadshfdgfkjf oh god so embarrassing.
IT WOULD PROBABLY......actually....be kind of hot. if he knew he was being watched and the person watching was very visibly there (as opposed to, say SNEAKING STALKER and finding out later) because it's....a thrill. ~FORBIDDEN~ and ~WRONG~ and dirty and ohgod why is it making this better D'8
...I'm not sure how often he masturbates in general at all.
object penetration stuff other than dildos, vibrators, plugs, etc
AS LONG AS IT ISN'T THE SHINKEN I think he would protest and freak out and then feel horrible about enjoying it. As long as the person he's with keeps him calm, he'd...be okay... ALSO IF IT'S WELL LUBED. IT HAS TO BE LUBED.